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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by FaithfulRaider View Post
    For my mental game, I've decided any girl worth talking to would certainly have a boyfriend already. Any girl who doesn't must have something wrong with them.
    I really hope you truly don't believe that. There is no logic behind this.
    There are tons of valid reasons why many interesting and pretty girls are single.

    Lack of valid suitors
    Lack of time
    No desire to commit
    Not actively seeking a relationship
    Not putting themselves in situations where they meet tons of guys

    The same reasons a lot of PUAs are single. The same reasons a lot of naturals are single.

    My current girlfriend(soon to be ex) was single when I approached her. HB8, athletic, reads a lot, brutally honest and very blunt in general, doesn't put up with BS, hard working and very ambitious. Works full time and goes to university while still finding time to work out and play flag football. She doesn't do the whole night game thing, she barely drinks.

    I picked her up at work(bookstore) and she told me I was the first guy to have approached her so directly in her whole life. I am pretty sure there are tons of girls in similar situations due to the amount of similar reactions I've gotten during day game.

    This brings me to another point. Majority of guys are AFCs. Why would you assume most girls are taken when most of the guys out there are AFCs? Illogical

    So yeah all that to say, some people have other priorities in life that take precedence over actively seeking a relationship. Being single in no way indicates something wrong with you.

    I'd be more inclined to say the validation seeking girls who have boyfriends but are in the club for the sole purpose of getting hit on by tons of guys to make themselves feel better are the ones with some very deep seated issues, but I digress.

    Sorry for the rant

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Of course I know that isn't a reality. As mentioned I use that as part of my mental game. Since the 'I have a boyfriend' is such a common test I set myself up to be ready to autopilot a response to it. It was a major stumbling block for me at first. Now it's a non-issue if I already have my gameplay ready to handle it before even going in. If they don't, perfect. But as the OP mentioned there are times where (real or not) it seems every girl you talk to has a boyfriend. It's just my way of mentally prepping.

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    In addition, most girls are willing to cheat on a BF... it happens. If they have a BF its like trying to get the puck past the keeper, anything can happen.

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    not all women cheat only certain types, there's loyal ones that won't ditch you for the moon

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dj Chill View Post
    Depends, I know some girls openly hand out numbers like its nothing but then nothing comes out of it cause they DO actually have a boy friend, and your just filler, your just filling in the gap where hes not, more so in the attention area when hes not giving it to her, you are.

    To the OP, perhaps they were testing you but see if you ever do go out or actually meet up with them, Thats how you'll know. Maybe they were bulsh1tting, but then maybe not.

    A girl that is taken wont surely show herself in public with another guy in "familiar" locals if she is infact taken.....
    I agree you should "fill in the gap" when he's not around

    Also use Boyfriend destroyer
    .-* WWWEEE *-.

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    I agree wit both FaithRaider and Kaybee. When it comes to mentality you have to kind of take it far beyond reality. This is why I find it amusing when people read David X's quote "Every woman is a slut except your mother and your sister" and take it LITERALLY. It's just an advanced mindset to help not put her on a pedestal. Not to actually preach about it like if it were literally true.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Unless a woman is engaged or very committed to a BF, she'll constantly be shopping around for the next BF or fling.

    I always assume all women have at least one guy on a string.
    Carpe diem!

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Man, that's an excessive use of semi-colons. I hate being an asshat like that, but I would avoid using so many semi-colons because that comes off as pretentious and as you trying too hard. Just focus on grammar and spelling and you'll be alright, and whenever you get the urge to use semi-colons then just make a new sentence.

    In regards to your question, what you need to do is to pass that shit-test. So respond with something cool like "yeah, me too, so what? lol" or "that's very interesting, did you know that Lady GaGa is 5'1"?".

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    One thing to remember is there are more girls in the world than there are guys, So it's technically impossible for every woman to have a man even if every guy in the world is with a girl. The odds are in our favor.
    "Act like you're interested, not like you care."

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by Thatoneguyonforums View Post
    One thing to remember is there are more girls in the world than there are guys, So it's technically impossible for every woman to have a man even if every guy in the world is with a girl. The odds are in our favor.
    Unless they are polygamous.


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