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    Default Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Today was my 2nd day in the field; approached about 7 or 8 girls at the mall and got 2 number closes from the girls that i actually did like and were interested in knowing better;


    The things both of these girls had boyfriends but still gave me their numbers!


    I was honestly just practing and approaching for fun with no expectations; but some things I've realized i need to work on are displaying too much interest early on and giving positive body language; signs of neediness; and try hard..


    Ive read a lot of things but it seems in the field you really don't have time to think and analyze what your doing it happens so quick;


    A common theme is most good/average looking girls have bfs? I asks them right away whats his name and they all say without hesitation

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by cire113 View Post
    Today was my 2nd day in the field; approached about 7 or 8 girls at the mall and got 2 number closes from the girls that i actually did like and were interested in knowing better;


    The things both of these girls had boyfriends but still gave me their numbers!


    I was honestly just practing and approaching for fun with no expectations; but some things I've realized i need to work on are displaying too much interest early on and giving positive body language; signs of neediness; and try hard..


    Ive read a lot of things but it seems in the field you really don't have time to think and analyze what your doing it happens so quick;


    A common theme is most good/average looking girls have bfs? I asks them right away whats his name and they all say without hesitation

    Do not aks the name of their bf. Just pass their sh1t test. I usually say ''ho good me either and he is so jealous! Let's hang out together sometime the four of us and i wil introduce my bf to yours.Maybe they end up to become a couple ..r'!''

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by GiovanniP View Post
    Do not aks the name of their bf. Just pass their sh1t test. I usually say ''ho good me either and he is so jealous! Let's hang out together sometime the four of us and i wil introduce my bf to yours.Maybe they end up to become a couple ..r'!''
    Hey man thanks for the response but I'm a bit confused in what you said;

    I did mention great we should all hang out together;


    But the reason i ask for their name and is sometimes they are just making it up;; and then when they hesitate i bust them on it

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Depends, I know some girls openly hand out numbers like its nothing but then nothing comes out of it cause they DO actually have a boy friend, and your just filler, your just filling in the gap where hes not, more so in the attention area when hes not giving it to her, you are.

    To the OP, perhaps they were testing you but see if you ever do go out or actually meet up with them, Thats how you'll know. Maybe they were bulshitting, but then maybe not.

    A girl that is taken wont surely show herself in public with another guy in "familiar" locals if she is infact taken.....

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by cire113 View Post
    But the reason i ask for their name and is sometimes they are just making it up;; and then when they hesitate i bust them on it
    It's just a s-test, don't fail on it! Accept what they say ("cool..."), play with your target with some absurd humor ("that way you won't fell in love with me, I don't have time for this...") and then just change the subject ("do you have a brother or...?"). S-test passed. Or just ignore it altogether. Like they didn't mention a boyfriend.



    By the way, do not use these exact lines infield. I'm just giving an example here for you to get the point.

    Oh, and also you can't find out if the boyfriend they're talking about is real or not by just asking his name. I can come up with 10 different male names within 1 sec. You can do this, too. The girls can do this, too. They could just throw a random name, the first that came in their mind! So, stop doing that.

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    try to tease them, every goals have a goal keeper but people still score

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Yeah man, just a test. It really doesn't matter what the name of their boyfriend is. It's a way of them testing to see if you're easily put on the defensive, how you'll react... it's their defense mechanism to sort out the great guys from the duds.

    They're trying to "break your game" to see if you're really genuine or not. If they weren't interested, you wouldn't have gotten their number.

    -CW

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    also don't use that there's a goalie and u can still score it'll just raise their defenses higher because no one likes cheaters (comes down to morals and what ur looking for I guess) the other methods are good

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    For my mental game, I've decided any girl worth talking to would certainly have a boyfriend already. Any girl who doesn't must have something wrong with them. If she's cute/hot and interesting enough to have a conversation with, and she doesn't have a boyfriend...what crazy thing is keeping they guys away from her? If I meet a girl like this, I often straight up say "you don't have a boyfriend? Whats wrong with you?" (after establishing a funny mood of course, don't do it to be mean). Had more than a few then bring up their boyfriends which they were trying to hide....lol! Also works the other way too, when they break out the "I have a boyfriend" I can then say "I know you do, if you didn't I would think something is wrong with you and would even be talking to you" more or less...you get the idea. Point is, don't let it phase you.

    My philosophy is every girl is looking to upgrade their guy, even if they don't admit to it. I used to believe this wasn't true, that girls are all blindly faithful when in a relationship. Boy I have discovered this is so not true! I hear girls in relationships always talking about other guys (whether just joking or half-serious) and know that they'd drop their guys in a heartbeat if someone better (or badder, or hotter) came along, even if its just for a brief meaningless distraction from their boring relationship. Some girls would need a guy who is SERIOUSLY better, but still, very few girls from my observations are not in this camp.

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    Default Re: Every girl has a boyfriend?

    Why to care if she has a boyfriend or not?
    We need to be ready for any situation at approach.


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