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Thread: Conversation about her or all about dhv stories?

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    Default Conversation about her or all about dhv stories?

    Hey guys,

    So I know getting a girl to talk about herself is a good thing, but how much of the conversation should be directed towards flirting and using get to know you questions? For example, should the conversation be 75% about her, then 25% about me, etc? I am trying to figure out how much of the conversation should be focused on the girl, when it is the appropriate time to throw in some dhv's, and how to get her to qualify to me. With that in mind, I really struggle with attracting and getting the hook. Those are my biggest sticking points so far and I am trying to improve in those areas. If anyone could help me that would be great.

    Thanks for the advice and keep it coming.

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    Default Re: Conversation about her or all about dhv stories?

    Yes it's good to get a woman talking. However, if she starts blabbing away and you are just nodding your head, then you still aren't doing much to increase your chances.

    75/25 sounds like a decent time ratio. Treat it as a guideline and not a law. Eventually you want to internalized this so it's automatic to tell when a woman is talking too much or you are.

    Learn about story telling. I am not kidding when I say you could literally talk about ANYTHING as long as you are passionate about it. (Preferably not about negative stuff though like politics lol.) I've blabbed away to women about cellphones (I love following Android , iphone, and Windows Phone news) and they always tell me how simple/easy I make it sound so they understand all the techno junk and love how I get all excited when I talk about it. That doesn't mean act like a schoolgirl and talk 100 miles per min. It just means to know which words to emphasize and when to pause for suspense. It's a great tool in any Pickup Artists arsenal.
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    Default Re: Conversation about her or all about dhv stories?

    Hey batman,

    Thanks for the advice! I will definitely work on dhv and story telling. Now I am curious, is the story telling the best way to get the hook? How do you recommend transitioning and getting the hook right after an opener?

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    Transitioning is as simple as paying attention to the nouns in a person's response and question it or reference another story.
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