Being honest with yourself is very important. When you don't have any filter and truly express yourself as a man, it will naturally attract women. A lot of guys have limiting beliefs and get anxiety that inhibit their actions. Only way to minimize that is through constant exposure in game by approaching and staying in set. Practice escalating, breaking rapport and qualifying the girl. Once he starts seeing results positive results, he'll have better reference points and start to feel more comfortable being the true version of himself.