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    Default HB9 Flakes on first date... advice

    So this girl cancelled on me last minute. She text me with...

    "babe I'm really sorry but I'm stuck at work... can we re arrange?"

    What do I do here I've never been flaked on and I'm a little pissed... does this sound genuine or a classic flake. she text me like an hour before we were supposed to meet.

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    Default Re: HB9 Flakes on first date... advice

    That's hard to say...
    If she was planning to get out at a certain time & she's really stuck at work, then it's possible it's a legit thing.

    When you get stuck at work, you don't know it several hours before it happens. (It's gonna be more of a "last minute" thing.)

    It's best to express some disappointment in the fact that she's cancelling... but don't turn it into a huge deal. Then build compliance with her.

    Something like,
    "*sigh... we might be able to do that, but it's gonna cost you big time! (You have to bring me some gum.) "

    (Or something along those lines.)


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    Default Re: HB9 Flakes on first date... advice

    Thanks T-mal, great advice as usual. Sent but no reply... guess we know what that means.

    If she replies like tommorrow what do I do? I'm thinking of just blowing her off...

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    Default Re: HB9 Flakes on first date... advice

    Yeah, I'd put her on the back burner for now & wait a day or two, while I keep gaming a few others.

    (I've had a few mega-hotties who seemed interested at first, just go "dead-air" for whatever reason too.)

    After a couple days, shoot a quick "non-question" fun text if she hasn't replied by then.

    And if it's still no answer, cut bait & keep fishin.


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    Default Re: HB9 Flakes on first date... advice

    Something like... "my boss cracked the most racid fart I've ever smelt in a meeting with a client then blamed it on me!! What an arsehole... literally ; )" ?


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