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    Default Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    Looking for some advice, this girl I'm seeing wants to settle down, and I'm not into that, told her from the start I don't want a serious relationship, I know the signs all too well and she wanted to tell me she loves me the other day on a text using "ILY" I just said, ya I'm learning yoga too... I like yogurt, I like yams, ect.. LOL

    Think she got the hint that I'm not going to respond to that, but at the same time she is getting way too attached to me and we only see each other maybe twice a week, I gave her the best sex of her life and now she is in love, ohh, MY BAD!

    I don't want to stop seeing her, but I do want to see other girls too and not have to deal with the jealousy crap, any advice on this sort of thing?

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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    Well if ubdont wanna stop tapping that then u should at least act like you care a little but don't act like you love her or anything so it doesnt come as a surprise when you leave her. If she starts getting jealous then let her. Once she starts acting pyscho then dump her. But if you don't want to be a jerk then don't be selfish and let her go now before she falls deeply in love with you and you break her heart even worse. Good luck homie

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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    Never said I wanted to leave her, just want to swim in some other waters without being called a liar, a cheater or whatever because in her mind we are in a relationship, when I never made that commitment. Guess I'll see what happens tomorrow night when I'm out with this other girl and I don't reply to her...
    Was tied down too long! Time to play the game some more

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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    Then by all means play the game. ;p she might even like the fact that u got other girls that want You.

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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    never lie, never cheat ;; these are the only 2 things that can help you in this

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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    Be a player - Kino's how NOT to date.

    Ask yourself, are you seting the frame for a relatonship? Twice a week, every week, dates, cuddle time etc. You have to be careful crossing those boundaries otherwise...

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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    I know the signs all too well and she wanted to tell me she loves me the other day on a text using "ILY" I just said, ya I'm learning yoga too... I like yogurt, I like yams, ect.. LOL

    Lol

    Guess I'll see what happens tomorrow night when I'm out with this other girl and I don't reply to her...

    You don't have to be that guy. Watch this. It should solve all your problems (well, the ones you've presented here ).
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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post

    You don't have to be that guy. Watch this. It should solve all your problems (well, the ones you've presented here ).
    Thanks for that video Cody, the last few minutes are what I'm dealing with and it's pretty cold but looks like that's how things are gonna have to go down!
    Was tied down too long! Time to play the game some more

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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    I'm a bit of a jerk, Build a little more attraction let her feeling like she needs you then just directly tell her what you think and know.. "I never agreed to commitment and I can't handle the drama of serious relationships.. I like to keep open relationships" or some crap to persuade her into agreeing.

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    Default Re: Girl getting too attached and I'm not wanting a relationship

    I am going to try this tonight.


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