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Thread: going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

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    Default going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

    going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

    I met girl on online dating shes funny nice goergus sweet kind.she texts me first also .and we chat everyday either on phone text or facebook.we been chatting two months she shared loads things loads an i didnt share much yet really personal things that happened her.she has had bad life for few years ok now doh.and hasnt dated in two years cus boyfreind cheated on her.im 20 shes 18 she said shes into personality loads and not into looks and told me not worry she will never hurt me. But sadly i heard this before with girls and it aint true shes like a 9 and im like a 3 or 4 im so worried im muscular but ugly face scars on it from acne before and bad skin and teeth and ugly face.im so worried she will be turned off
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    Default Re: going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

    First let me congratulate you! Good work with setting up a date with a girl that hot! She obviously prior a good personality before looks. And you should thank her cheating ex-bf, his behavior has been an advantage for you =)

    Anyway, as for the date. For preparations: dress well, get a haircut, i.e. make you look as good as possible. Btw, have you not shown this girl and photos of you?

    And for the date... what are your strenghts? If you have any then try to point out during the date. What about humor, intelligence, experiences? Do you have any special skills?

    With some more information about you it will be easier to give you good advices =)

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    Default Re: going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

    Just read that you have shared your pics with her, thatīs good. Then your look will not be any surprise to her.

    Besides, how strange it may sounds, fact is that many girls actually find it attractive with faces full of scars from acne. I have a friend that looks like scarface and I see him pick up girls like the easiest thing on earth!

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    Default Re: going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

    Quote Originally Posted by mrgoodguyirish View Post
    going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

    I met girl on online dating shes funny nice goergus sweet kind.she texts me first also .and we chat everyday either on phone text or facebook.we been chatting two months she shared loads things loads an i didnt share much yet really personal things that happened her.she has had bad life for few years ok now doh.and hasnt dated in two years cus boyfreind cheated on her.im 20 shes 18 she said shes into personality loads and not into looks and told me not worry she will never hurt me. But sadly i heard this before with girls and it aint true shes like a 9 and im like a 3 or 4 im so worried im muscular but ugly face scars on it from acne before and bad skin and teeth and ugly face.im so worried she will be turned off
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    No offense but u will probably fail cuz u have zero self confidence
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

    Well first off, Why are you so down on yourself?, If you've ever read "The Game" then you will already know that looks don't matter

    You have been talking to HB for months and have skyped, Take some confidence from the fact you have set a day 2.

    Look up as many posts as possible about Inner Game and for the date there are many conversational threads in "How to talk to girls"!

    During the course of talking to this HB you would have made some inside jokes, I would advise starting off the date with alot of callback humour to relax her into the date and get yourself into state then game as normal - Tease, DHV, Cube etc

    Enjoy your date and as posts above have already said seriously work on your inner game

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    Default Re: going on date goergus girl im ugly HELP! please?

    Xavier was harsh but he was correct in every sense, so what if you're bad looking? I'm fat and bad looking but the way I run my game I look like a seasoned veteran even though I still consider myself a newbie. I love having that sort of underdog factor when it comes to women and picking them up, no one thinks I can do it and everyone counts me out before the get go but I pull out all the stops and I do everything to perfection.

    Don't be worried about looks and don't put too much pressure on yourself because if you do it will be telegraphed to this girl. Relax, take a deep breath, bring yourself back to reality and feel comfortable. Have a rough game plan for your date so things can still be flowing, use your wit and intellect, it's your most valuable asset when it comes to this game and when it comes to showing your personality. Remember she likes your personality, so use it to your advantage, convey it as much as you can without showing you're trying.
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