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Thread: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

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    Default Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    Alright so this situation has left me scratching my head. This person I know is trying to get with the same girl as me. The thing is he(AFC beta) is able to 'hang out' with her more often. The girl has already promised me and wants to hang out with me as well, as I ran a few games and induced her interest via Texting. But the first physical meeting has yet to occur. She also remains very busy in her life so her Texting can be at random times. I have learned many techniques from this community but I have hit a roadblock in this situation.

    Thank you everyone!

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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    Maybe he's in the friendzone?

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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    If you are 100% sure that he is beta and you are alpha then I would also say his friend zoned but don't just assume that. Maybe he has some solid game and is playing better then you. Just keep running good routines and if he is beta then you will come out on top

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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    well. Bros before hoes also applies to male with female friends. He can hang out with her and get nothing. In the last year i dont see male best friends as a threat anymore

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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    Interesting but it does happen, some Beta guys just flip the right switches by accident and get the girl (that's why they call it getting lucky) but don't worry too much, just hang back and play it cool. Funny thing happened the other day when I was gaming this girl on campus at a club.

    Her friend came along and called me out on the 5 question game saying "Neil Strauss", after a bit of chat, they both went off together. It doesn't phase me. I saw them yesterday in the library doing work together and walking around. I still don't care because he looks friendzoned more than anything.

    Things you can ask yourself when you seem together such as: Is there any kino? If none then you tick that off as friendzoned. Is she showing IOIs? If no then friendzoned. Just a couple of examples, don't worry too much and just continue with other women too, if she's that you're drifting away then she may fight for you
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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    I look at it this way, she can hang out with as many guys as she wants, none of them are ever going to be a threat because when she comes on a date with me she'll realise that I am a man and the guys she's been seeing are just boys in comparison and if she does pick someone else then she ain't smart enough to be worth your time anyway

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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    one more thing. Dont make the comparisson between boy or man. That doesnt matter. Lot of friendzoneds think they act like men so they dont blame theirselves

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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    It's not so much the comparison of boy and man, I would never actually say it, it was just a way of saying that the date with me would blow the other dates out the water....if ya get my meaning.

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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    oh ok. In that way is ok. Well in any case, never search aproval. The less you care the more you have

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    Default Re: Guys how do I compete with this beta? <--lol wut?

    You guys are awesome thanks for the replies!

    Im pretty sure he is friendzoned as she is a heavy "gamer" (videogames) and so is he , like a huge obsession and that's pretty much all they talk about whenever we all hang out with other friends as well.


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