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    Exclamation A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    A HB 10, divorced, aged 32,…with I guess big issues. Went with a couple of dates with her, had sex and now she is being kind of flaky. She was really working on me (talking about a relationship and even marriage) and I was telling her that is way too fast and that it would be at my pace or not at all. Everything was ok till this her ex showed up at her place and threatened her… would be another story. Supposedly she cleared things up with him, but somehow since then we are not progressing anywhere.

    It seems to me that being a bad ass is the turn on for her. She did say something along the lines that her ex has something that I do not have and made a joke that if I were abusive it would turn her on!

    Anyway Last time we met and went out clubbing I took a female friend (she came with her boyfriend and another male friend) along to judge the situation. To this female friend it seems that this girl and I are fighting for who is in control. I get sh1t tests from her constantly and I even point them out to her.

    To sum up the situation she told me that to women I must be beautiful (don’t know why she didn’t use the word handsome) and that she is a cold bitch (her words, but I totally agree with them). She said I have all the positive traits that she is looking for in a man (confidence, ambition) just like her ex has, without the negative traits of him being an asshole (her words not mine), and that she likes me, but isn’t falling in love with me and does not know why.
    We did talk about a problem that we have: she want for me to chase her whilst I told her that girls chase me and not the other way round. She is also a person that does not open up and when I try to get to her inner self she turns into a closed hopeless little girl that goes quiet, as she might say too much about herself.

    In my opinion she seems to be attracted to guys that treat her badly. She said that she creates situations where she gets into deep sh1t and has fun out of the thrill that she gets from such situations.
    When we were getting to know each other everything was going smoothly and now it seems to me that we are fighting for who would control a potential relationship without having feelings for each other.

    What works on her is DHV,
    negs work from time to time (like hit and miss… she does have a moody personality),
    jealousy works really well (she says that I have too many female friends),
    cocky and funny does not work (I guess she has no sense of humor),

    My question is how do I get her chasing me? Do I need to send her on an emotional rollercoaster, if so, how?
    Being abusive to her like her ex is not an option as I am not such a person and will never be!
    In my opinion she is not relationship material. Many of you would tell me that I should not waste my time, but we are here to learn and gain new experiences.
    Any tips would be much appreciated!

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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    One word for ya, as far as what your mindest & attitude about this one should be:

    "NEXT!!!"


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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    do you want to spend a relation with someone who puts your brain burning in so much thoughts? She is a player, if you do something wrong in a relationship shell easily cheat on you

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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    Guys, of course she is not relationship material, but how do you handle such type of girls?
    I know that I should not waste my time on her, but I'm willing to go along for the practise.... generally speaking to improve my skills.

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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    I didn't read every detail, but I think I got the gist of it. She's crazy. More or less. T-Mal and Bmr_id said it: that's the type of chick to stay away from.

    If you want to keep her around just for practice then the thing to practice is dynamic emotional stimulation. This is why jealousy works on her but cocky/funny does not. I'd advise against this particular endeavor though because the more you nurture yourself a habit of irratically affecting her emotional state, the more you risk allowing your own emotions to become irratic and uncontrollable.
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    Dont know why u still want her man. If you dont have many other chicks, FIND SOME.

    U pretty much got all u could out of her. Any more and it'll just be needless drama.

    There is no skill you can improve on by practicing on this type of woman.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    ahahahah the tags are blood sucker. If you even think she is a bood sucker why do you want to keep gaming her?

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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    I think i would go for some push pull!

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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    One word for ya, as far as what your mindest & attitude about this one should be:

    "NEXT!!!"
    Hahahahaha! couldn't agree more she seems nuttier than a damn squirrel

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    Default Re: A thrill seeking cold HB10 that is a nightmare

    @Autismums: Please explain what you mean by dynamic emotional stimulation. That sounds like a totally new concept to me and it does sound very interesting what you are saying that C&F not working vs. jealousy working. Can you elaborate or let me know where I can do some further reading.
    I am confidcent that I am capable to maintain inner balance.

    @Dice man: Push pull has a mediocre effect, but maybe I need to refine my technique

    @Autismus, Bmr_id, Sidewinder, Lockdown, T-mal: For the practise... so in the future I will not be surprised by girls of her type (though I honestly hope for humanity that that there are not too many, of her type, around)

    @Lockdown: No worries... have a other options for a relationship


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