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    Default Need help mingling with the neighbor girl .

    First of all let me inform you all, I'm totally newbie to this forum.. of course this is my first post..

    I am an engineering student .. I have been residing in one place like since 2 years .. and there's a girl in my neighbor .. I have been watching her since 2 years.. I know she likes me ..but I haven't talked to her till date .. Now I want to know how to mingle with her without being too creepy / weird because I daily watch her but haven't talked to her anytime in these 2 yrs period...

    So whats my problem
    - I haven't talked to her at all since I am residing here.
    - And If I talk to her all of a sudden, I mean now.. won't it look weird coz I haven't talk to her anytime.
    - So I want to know ,whats the best way to approach her after a long time.
    - And I am sure she likes me.
    Thank you.

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    Default Re: Need help mingling with the neighbor girl .

    Next time there is a party you should show up or invite her? great way of getting to know each other.

    Do not bring up anything about watching her for the last two years. Just start from the moment you meet her and go from there.

    Do you get chances to talk her? Some more info would be great.
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

    “The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it.”
    ― Flannery O'Connor

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    Default Re: Need help mingling with the neighbor girl .

    Quote Originally Posted by sumeet View Post
    - And If I talk to her all of a sudden, I mean now.. won't it look weird coz I haven't talk to her anytime.
    - So I want to know ,whats the best way to approach her after a long time.
    - And I am sure she likes me.
    Thank you.
    - No it won't look weird unless you say something weird (like 'Ive been watching you the last 2 years'), she is your neighbor.
    - Say 'hello!'. If its friday say something like 'hello! (smile), hey happy friday!'. She what her reponse is. Unless you have an awesome fool proof situational opener. A simple hello is all it takes. Only need a spark to start a wildfire.
    - You can never be 100% sure a girl likes just because she looks at you, but assume attraction none the less.

    If she asks you why you suddenly said hello there are so many interesting responses you can use in reply I wouldnt worry about it and theres a low probability she would actually say that. Just move the conversation forward confidently. No fear.


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