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    Default Working out if she's single

    So I previously posted about what to do about dating an old friend... I don't know if she's single so I'm not sure what to do at this point its easier to explain if I drop you into the convo

    me:
    Heya, I've got a cheeky date in (her town) on sat, where's the best place to go for a drink as I don't know (her town) very well?


    HB10 ( yeah she's really hot!):
    James!!! who is the lucky lady?? what you thinking Drinks or dinner as well?? Oh exciting times! x x x


    Me:
    a girl I met in Fez the other week. Can't remember what she looks like, had the beer googles on ; s... it could be interesting lol!. I'm thinking drink, dinner can be a bit awkward! So how's your love life as of late?x

    I'm trying to see if she's single but as I've already disqualified she shouldn't see it as a threat.


    HB10:
    A bit complicated but hey hoe... Reckon you should go to a place called cube! Get's pretty busy on a sat, but it would be a fun place for a drink. May come out- so poss could see you about?! haha! x x



    Not sure what to do now... I don't want to start prying into her love life, it would seem a bit obvious... any thoughts on my next move?

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    Default Re: Working out if she's single

    Don't ask if she's got a boyfriend

    Invite her out for dates and proceed as if she doesn't

    Asking makes it obvious and it forces her to make an immediate decision if she wants to proceed or not. You never want to back someone in to a corner

    Just proceed as if she didn't have one and see if you hit resistance
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    Default Re: Working out if she's single

    I agree, but do I need to frame it as a date?

    For instance, if I asked her out for a drink then it could be a case that she'll think its just an old friend catch-up drink...

    also, I should probably mention that she's read the game so she's probably cute on the common pick-up techniques...

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    Default Re: Working out if she's single

    No you dont need to call it a date, you probably shouldn't

    Yea, just a drink is fine, when you do, make sure you ramp up some kino, this thread may help on the basics
    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...html#post66071
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