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    TheManSohan is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default People lacking respect, how do I deal with it?

    Recently with my persona that I now portray with my new mindset and the way I live my life some close friends of mine some of whom I live with are now starting to find problems with my attitude and are showing a clear lack of respect just because I'm not the same person I was when I was an AFC. I don't have a problem with this when I'm with women I'm gaming because my frame is strong is enough that they accept me as the dominant one leading the interaction.

    With my new lifestyle I leave from social interactions with them early so I can endeavour on my gaming and I rarely hang out with them now but then they keep asking why I'm leaving early and they don't accept it when I say "I have better things to do". I smoke weed with my house mate now and then when I'm not gaming but as we kept the weed in his room he smoked a fair bit with his girlfriend saying "We paid for most of it" (it was a 2:1:1 ratio) but I was still disappointed to go ahead and do that, he even did it before when he didn't buy any of it. I just replied with "ok" and started a new conversational thread or talked to someone else.

    I expect that when I have been friends with these people for this long that I should be given the same respect back that I give to them. How would should I deal with this?
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    Default Re: People lacking respect, how do I deal with it?

    they miss what you were or they simply feel threatned because you are making progress and youre not submissive

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    Default Re: People lacking respect, how do I deal with it?

    With the weed issue....sit them down and talk to them sensibly about it, you are all adults, tell him you weren't happy with the way it was handled and that you would hope it won't happen again. Don't be threatening or aggressive just make sure he knows that you wont take shit from him. As for not hanging around with them as much, I'm having the same issue tbh, it's got to the point where my housemates go and do things and don't even ask if I want to come no more, just cus I don't spend 24/7 with them like they do with eachother. :/ I'm a bit lost as to how to deal with this as well......maybe it's just something we have to accept. :/

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    Default Re: People lacking respect, how do I deal with it?

    I think it's an alpha thing mate, they can't deal with the fact we have other options out there. This game cruel but the rewards are priceless.
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    Default Re: People lacking respect, how do I deal with it?

    That's what I think, they got annoyed with me the other day cus they asked what I was doing in the evening and I said I was on a date, and they were like 'with a different girl again.....what's a matter can't keep hold of one', I mean could the jealousy be any more blatant lol

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    Default Re: People lacking respect, how do I deal with it?

    Similar thing happened to me, I told them "Not really, I'm just very selective". It's all jealousy mate. Only people like us and neutrals want to see us at our best, the rest just can't take the fact people can become better.
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    Default Re: People lacking respect, how do I deal with it?

    It must be a British thing because im having exactly the same problem, friends asking what are you doing tonight, me "im on a date" for them to say "another... do you not get bored of meeting new people" lol they've not a clue

    Or worse on the rare occasion i go out with them they say "I think you should go speak with her, your a player these days"

    Shows i was right to say nothing about this website, sarging, the game etc, Few PUAs have a meet planned in Edinburgh on Saturday so forget them and full steam ahead


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