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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    Guess I should throw in my story:

    Just got this girls number and really never talked to her much since we just exchanged numbers. Was texting somebody else and trying to blow them off, and I punched up "Hey im busy Im out with XXXX right now". Slipped up on the sending and sent it to the damn girl that was mentioned in the text. Of course she texts back wondering what I was talking about....luckily I simply told her I was trying to get someone to stop bothering me and said I was busy and blew them an excuse. No harm done really in the end, didnt pose a negative effect. But I was sh1tting a brick when it sent to her...

    Learned though to name certain people in my contacts, or people with same names differently so that an accidental up/down motion doesnt select the wrong recipient.

    Another good one, me speaking whats on my mind. Was sort of in between 2 girls, one it was getting boring and we were basically in the end about to go our separate ways. A girl I was moving onto(who i talked to prior but was not currently investing any time into) who I really vibed called and I pickup, first thing she says "What are you up to" all sexy like....I literally say Im waiting on a call from this girl(mentioned above)..which was true..she goes Oh....well ill let you go then, in a non-sexy disgusted voice LOL. I play it off, "Nah nah its nothing like that was just waiting to hear back about something". She goes Oh ok so what else is new - in a now friendly and flirty voice. Almost burned myself by being stupid although ended up talking to her for a good hour and making solid progress towards her that call. Was no cheating involved and I ended up going out with this new girl a few weeks later....frickin beauty too!

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    Quote Originally Posted by SexualSorcerer333 View Post
    Wow. That definately is Epic meteora. Like wow. Its not the same type of embarrassing as getting told by museum staff that your making people feel uncomfortable. But definately a way more extreme situation that I think totally tops mine, and was a miniature thrill to read, so thank you.

    So what is the dog opener? I dont know if you just mean you were talking about the dog or if there is a specific opener.

    And what happened after you accidentally jumped into the pickup truck? I mean didnt the owner of teh truck come out and be like whats going on? How did the dog stop? Lol this story's ending is a little sketchy.

    Remember a good story has a beginning,a middle, and an end. Storytelling is important in the gaming women and being socially charismatic, so you need to make sure neither one of these three parts is sketchy, confusing, or has any holes in it or incongruencies. This is a perfect chance to work on your story telling. Because aside from the sketchiness at the beginning and end adn not giving all the details, this story is a perfect example of a good story. Its short and super exciting. You should definately use it in your social life.
    it ended with my epic landing in the bed of the truck, the girl and her mom came over and got the dog (wich almost attacked the driver when he got out to see what was going on) the girl tryd to appolagize, but i was soo shook up at the time, that i don't even remember what she said to me. i went back to my camper and didn't approach any girls with dogs for like a hole year (every time i saw a girl with a dog i remembered that german shepard and avoided them) and your right it is a great dhv story, but i only tell it to close friends (most of whom know i'm a pua) and yes i could definatly work on my story telling skills (i'm not much of a writer) and my stories are way better when i tell them in person it was a pretty scary experience, but now that i think about it, it was pretty exciting

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    My big screw up is what set the wheels in motion for me finding this community & PUA way of thinking!! I'd be lying if I didn't still feel more than a little sore, but that's just emotion left over from a real AFC chump mistake that led to a nasty rejection - all of my own doing.

    The ball was in my court for a good week or 2 but I still managed to shoot myself in the foot. Ouch ouch ouch.
    Sounds silly too, that all this happened in late July / early August. What a loser!

    I hope that makes sense!

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    No, elaborate. Go into specifics so guys can learn from your mistake.

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    Yea Dj Chill I have totally screwed things up with women before by texting women who had names who started with the same letter at the same time and accidentally saying the wrong th ings to the wrong ones....it happens.

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    it ended with my epic landing in the bed of the truck, the girl and her mom came over and got the dog (wich almost attacked the driver when he got out to see what was going on) the girl tryd to appolagize, but i was soo shook up at the time, that i don't even remember what she said to me. i went back to my camper and didn't approach any girls with dogs for like a hole year (every time i saw a girl with a dog i remembered that german shepard and avoided them) and your right it is a great dhv story, but i only tell it to close friends (most of whom know i'm a pua) and yes i could definatly work on my story telling skills (i'm not much of a writer) and my stories are way better when i tell them in person it was a pretty scary experience, but now that i think about it, it was pretty exciting
    Yea this isa great story. So tell me more about the reaction of the driver when you first landed in the truck and he got out, adnt hen what happened between him adn teh dog...

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    lol forestred you literally do not give us any details about what your talking about...

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    OK guys, here goes..

    In late July I was walking through town on my way home after some 5 a side football (soccer) & birthday games of pool- it was my 29th the same day All of a sudden a chiseled, smoking hot blonde HB10 walks right by.. I stop, look at her walk by and say to myself "no way!" as in 'wow'. So I just think, I should at least try!

    So I retrace my steps to catch up and walk alongside her, I use a very simple opener "You are stunning.. Hi etc" in a nice, non-pesty way. So we walk on, chat for about 10mins and as we're about to part I say "Can I see you again?" and she basically throws her number at me... Wow, great, wow again, I think...

    That was a friday evening. On the Sunday evening I try and call to no response (twice in total) so I leave her a text 'nice to meet you, would you like to hang out'.. to no response. Anyway, I felt I couldnt leave it, so on the wednesday evening I call from my land line & result. Covert, but within the rules I felt.

    We chat for a little while and agree to go out the following week, nice chat, she seems flattered and gracious & asked me to make a plan - hard work done - at least it should have been. That was until I went down the completely wrong route.... This is obviously all in hindsight.

    I think because of the effort I'd put in to getting hold of this girl and the 10/10 rating I'd given her.. and a few other things, namely flakey girls... I had already put a huge amount of pressure on myself to see this through. She came across as quite sophisticated so I broke away from my usual character and text her with the suggestion of dinner.......... BIG ERROR.
    I'm really not a dinner date type and can hardly afford to put food on my own table let alone take a girl out for dinner!

    She being obviously switched on, replies and says "not really the dinner date type" "lets just go out sometime when we're both with friends". Leaving me thinking what a plank I'd been by not being myself.
    We chat & text again over the next few days, and agree we should meet up over the weekend when we're both out.

    Anyway, the weekend comes.. and goes.. The Friday night she texts around 9pm to say she'd let me know if / where she's off too, the Sat night comes, and goes.. with her phone being off.

    So I'm out Sat night & I stupidly text her & say 'I'm obv keen to see you, but dont think its reciprocal'.. she reponds quite wound up saying '"I was just having a nice weekend with my sister, phone cut out earlier, you seem like you have to make plans wheras I'm more impulsive, you're probably right when you put it like that... etc"

    And that obviously, was that! Initially I was like, thank f*ck!.. move on... but as time's gone on, I've realised a few errors in my ways - I didnt exactly play a cool game & really wasnt my usual self with the pressure / anxiety I piled on myself.
    I've met a good number of cracking girls since but havent been able to get this stunner out of my head!!

    Now- I realise; at the very time I met this girl, I should've tried to insta-date, I had the perfect setup.. it was a friday evening, it was my birthday and she had already had some wine with colleagues after work.

    I should have text her much sooner than leaving it the whole weekend (AFC 3 day rule, how dumb is that!)

    I didn't neg nor did I kino - no analysis needed there!!

    Dinner - duh!! And leading on from that, I should've been the one suggesting going out with friends, and not letting my ass hit the wall when she suggested it. I saw that as a sign of rejection - AFC.

    All in all, I should have been cool & alpha. Not given a sh1t. Instead I let this HB10 blow my mind & became a shaky, anxious wreck. Thankfully, I analysed the situation following other experiences, and after searching online for dating advice, stumbled into the PUA world- or should I say, some farking sense!!

    I still have that 10 on the brain, but thanks to her I've changed up my attitude. So that seems like a good deal.

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    Hell yeah, that was a great post. Now you know what to do the next time to come across a slightly intoxicated 10 on your birthday!

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    Default Re: Everyones Worst Screw Ups

    Yea you definately transgressed a lot of rules of the game there, I would focus a lot on how you use your words, and just a lot of your mannerisms. YOu definately came across as overly eager and clingy, and were trying too hard. Just play it more cool. ANd study! Read as much as you can on pick up artistry. Youll learn how to correct all those little mistakes. And thats what its about - microcalibration.

    That was really not a big screw up or anything. lol. Sorry, but that was just a pretty plain and simple flake. Happens all the time. Better get used to it. Especially with the hotter girls. Thats why you gotta have your game fine tuned down to a T, and you gotta play the game as a numbers game cause a lot of the girls you talk to wont come to fruition.


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