So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we seemed to hit it off. We've been to the club twice with mutual friends and had a great time. Last night i sent her a text asking her if she would like to go out for lunch today and she replied I don't know if I'm ready for something like that YET. Her ex just moved out yesterday and they've been split up for about three weeks. I replied "no big deal". Is it a lost ? If not which steps should I take from here?