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    Default Re: Workplace escalation?

    Everything's cool. I took up her offer for the trekking expedition. I reckon that I understand pretty well when a chick is merely being friendly or is actually showing interest.

    She has more girl friends than guys. In fact she rarely talks to any of the guys around unless it has something to do with work .She is very coy

    So it's going to 5 chicks and 2 guys. This is going to be fun

    @xavier: That's precisely the problem .Everything's happening the way I want it to and I just can't seem to wrap my head around it. I certainly do have self esteem issues since I don't regard myself very highly. I know that I should think of myself as the prize.

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    Since she has more girl friends than guys u can show intrest just don't over do it.
    As for the self esteem thing prioritise working on it.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Well, things did not pan out in accordance.There was this other bloke from the army and both she and her friend were more interested in him than me. Even though that dude was shorter than I - I am 6'1.5 and he was like 5'7 or something. Moreover even though I don't work out my frame is bigger than his in terms of bone structure. He only had bigger biceps and he is not even better looking.

    They were more into his stupid corny jokes.It was preposterous since they weren't even funny. She did ask if I was dating someone and I told her - probably shouldn't have. Nevertheless, her attitude changed after that..Those 3 even slept together - And now I am chronically depressed.I have only myself to blame....

    I don't really understand though - that dude has a gf but these girls were still into him.What gives?

    Was it because he was smiling and jovial?
    Was it because of pre-approval and this other chick knew him and was into him?
    Was it because he was giving them more attention?

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    Those 3 even slept together - And now I am chronically depressed.I have only myself to blame....
    yeah, you are (chronic is 8 weeks + by definition - so i don't think so)

    the rest of your questions don't really need an answer, he was more alpha than you, if he had a 3some i'd high 5 him, because not many people do have them (with no disrespect to you)

    if i may repeat myself friend zone her until further notice it will put you at ease

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    No, they didn't have sex. They just slept together huddled in a corner....one girl hugging the other and this guy some distance away.The trek guide another few feet away.

    Still he got to spoon one girl.

    Yea I concur that he was more alpha in this instance. I didn't show enough confidence.I was too mellow even though physically I am considered better looking than this chap. It does hurt my ego- I"ll admit that.

    I think my biggest flaw here was that I didn't indicate enough interest.There are so many variables though that I am not so sure where I went wrong. I get pretty depressed if people don't praise me all the time or if I am not the center of attention - Either way I am always able to manipulate situations to my advantage.It just did not work t


    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    Those 3 even slept together - And now I am chronically depressed.I have only myself to blame....
    yeah, you are (chronic is 8 weeks + by definition - so i don't think so)

    the rest of your questions don't really need an answer, he was more alpha than you, if he had a 3some i'd high 5 him, because not many people do have them (with no disrespect to you)

    if i may repeat myself friend zone her until further notice it will put you at ease

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    Quote Originally Posted by ryuzaki21 View Post
    No, they didn't have sex. They just slept together huddled in a corner....one girl hugging the other and this guy some distance away.The trek guide another few feet away.

    Still he got to spoon one girl.

    Yea I concur that he was more alpha in this instance. I didn't show enough confidence.I was too mellow even though physically I am considered better looking than this chap. It does hurt my ego- I"ll admit that.

    I think my biggest flaw here was that I didn't indicate enough interest.There are so many variables though that I am not so sure where I went wrong. I get pretty depressed if people don't praise me all the time or if I am not the center of attention - Either way I am always able to manipulate situations to my advantage.It just did not work t
    don't worry about the fqcker if he didn't get sh1t then no need to worry, you both in that case were p*ssies, and next time you'll take the charge (y) sounds like its time for the next woman

    maybe more kino could've sufficed and playful banter / flirting


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