Well, I met a few interesting girls around the weekend and I might even have a gf now. So far so good...
Except for one thing. I am working at a new place now and there is this really cute girl (easy 7 and I have mentioned her in a thread before) who sits in close proximity at 9 0 clock. Around 2 feet away.
And she looks for every opportunity to talk to me. I feel so 'petrified' at times though, rooted to the spot coz she sits on my left and I am kind of deaf from the left side. She has a really soft voice which makes it difficult for me to know what she is talking 'bot. A real pity.Moreover I nearly lost my last job due to a similar situation.
Ostensibly, there is some definite attraction here.I love the way she looks at me since she always has this seductive smile curled up at the corner of her lip and her voice trails off when I talk to her. You can see it in those eyes of hers . It's there.
Although I generally follow a specific rule that one should never engage in sexual or romantic liaisons at the workplace.Regardless , the aforementioned situation has me thinking about breaking this specific rule.The conundrum this puts me in is that it would break the illusion that I am a clark kent -esque boring, workaholic bloke who seems like he is slight neurotic even.
I know that it is very possible that this whole thing could blow up in my face and I wonder if I can handle this as delicately as possible. Suggestions?
How exactly do I escalate?
Is there a specific routine that could help me achieve this?...I am not looking to date her.I just want her phone number. That's all.