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    warlord is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Not sure what to do next. Please advise

    Hey all, long time to post

    A little back story, i will make it short.

    Met an stuck up young 22 year old HB 8.5.though a friend from out of town. She seems to be in to me. Hung out with her for 4 days while she was here in town, on the 3ed day we made sweet love.

    She went back last saturday (8 days ago.) we have been texting back and forth since then. She always texts me back except once (i froze her out for a day) Always a lot of hahaha's and smiley faces in her texts.

    So earlier today.

    Me: Hey what time you go to sleep tonight?

    her: late, why?

    Me: I need to ask you some question about you hood. i have a friend thats going and i told her i would get all the local info.

    Her:Oh kk, i might be busy with homework But weekends im always free

    Me:Oh ok, Im prob not gonna call till 10pm, my friend will be going to your area next monday

    Her: I will be up fo sho around that time.. I still have insomnia

    Me: That sucks...

    So at around 10pm when i was suppose to call her,my dog had an emergency and i had to take him to the emergency room. So at around 10PM when i was suppose to call her i texted

    Me:Fok !.. sign.... at the animal emergency room right now..

    Then nothing from her.. I guess i was hoping for a text back like "oh no what happened??".. But nothing. so obviously i didn't call her tonight. So how should i proceed? Should i freeze her out? text or call her tomorrow? Not sure how to reply to her silence on a a text that most girls I've been with would of been worried... Please help thanks !!

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    Default Re: Not sure what to do next. Please advise

    what you need to do now is dont hit her back let her hit you back. you let her know you where in the emergency room bro if shes not concerned enough to follow up to see whats your deal then shes really not concerned about you at the moment. shes a 8.5 so dont think for a momment theres a chance shes not doing her. im telling you from experience if you hit her back first she may respond but your gonna lose value. read my signature below lol.
    If someone knows they are being chased they are in the drivers seat and will usually take advantage

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    warlord is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Not sure what to do next. Please advise

    Yeah... you might be right. yeah, earlier this week i skipped a day in texting her, then i skipped two days another time. I think i have to skip more then that or else she will just figure out the pattern that i skip days here and there.

    I was thinking the next step is that i have to call, no more texting. Either i call today (which is the next day after i said i call) or i call maybe 3 days from now.

    I did tell her i would call her tho. So you guys think i should wait?

    Usually i would wait but in this case, i said i call already so maybe its not as "beta" if i call tonight because im just doing something i told her i was going to do.

    Thoughts?

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    warlord is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Not sure what to do next. Please advise

    By the way. I was also wondering what everybodies thought process's is also on why she didn't text back. She is very young stuck up, selfish and immature. One of the reason how we hooked up was that another hot girl was flirting with me, she couldn't take it and then ASKED me to pick between her and the other girl.

    I know trying to figure out what a girl thinks is like trying to figure out quantum mathematics but im just kind of curious. what i came up with are

    1) Shes a little pissed. Very selfish so shes mad that i said i call, but i didn't and she only cares about her self so that's why no return text

    2) Don't care about others, so sees text, figures whatever seeing as how it wasn't a question, so no response.

    3) Maybe a combanation of both? Kinda pissed, but figure i would call or text later with more info anyways so just didn't respond?

    Like i said, usually when i text her, she responds right away. If not right away, she will always respond except twice.. well now 3 times.. So IDK just wondering what y'all thought

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    Default Re: Not sure what to do next. Please advise

    are you sure that you want to invest all this time on someone who is "very young, stuck up selfish and immature"? If so, I'd say call her, don't make a big deal about being a day late.

    As for why she didn't text back, who cares? If she is a little pised then at least it shows she cares that you didn't call. If she didn't reply because she didn't care then the phone call is a great way to re-spark interest and build more attraction. If not, there are women out there who you can respect, and are more worthy of your effort.

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    Default Re: Not sure what to do next. Please advise

    yeah I know. you are right. shes not the only girl on my plate right now anyways. if I can keep her,great, if she gives me too much grief then fuk it.

    she just texted me back around 7pm with "sorry fell asleep early last night,hows your dog?"

    how should I respond? text or call? if I call it wont be till 4 hours from now around 11

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    Default Re: Not sure what to do next. Please advise

    If she doesn't reply once it's not a big deal. Women do this all the time for whatever reason and, frankly, analyzing what may have gone wrong or worrying about it wastes too much of our time and energy. I suggest text her like nothing happened (cause most likely nothing happened). Also, find ways to get more than one girl on your plate and mind (this cures "one-itis")

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    Default Re: Not sure what to do next. Please advise

    Quote Originally Posted by DrMojoRisin View Post
    If she doesn't reply once it's not a big deal. Women do this all the time for whatever reason and, frankly, analyzing what may have gone wrong or worrying about it wastes too much of our time and energy. I suggest text her like nothing happened (cause most likely nothing happened). Also, find ways to get more than one girl on your plate and mind (this cures "one-itis")

    Yeah i know, i do have another girl right now. Shes not the only one. Just shes pretty young and hot so i kind of wanted to keep her.

    I called her the next day and we chatted for about a half an hour. Everything seems to be good, a lot of general banter, never got personal

    She said she wants me to go visit her and seemed like she liked talking to me but she had to go after about half an hour.

    she said she has to go cause she " has to take a shower,so i'll see you on whatsapp" (whatsapp is a texting app that we use to text each other)

    Didn't really like that reply, is she saying she doesn't want me to call her and to just text her?? I'm thinking about freezing her out till Christmas and shoot her a generic merry Christmas text if i don't here from her by then. What you guys think?


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