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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    act like your life is awesome, show her you dont need her. the usual stuff dude except your in a prime position that most guys trying to get their ex back would kill for because she will actual see more and more everyday how happy you are.
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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    So.... i number closed last night......

    Now, i need to get some advice on my way forward.... My ex, didnt sleep at home aGAIN last night and this really fucks me up... Dont like that so... heres what i thought of doing....

    Im going to tell her this afternoon, That Unfortunately, Ive kinda met someone cool, and id like to see where it goes.... Unfortunately due to the fact that she still lives here... im being held back from doing this... whereas she, can just go to the dude's house, and not hold back at all... so, im going to as her to please move out asap.... I will refund her rent for half the month, but i need the space to explore new relationships etc..


    Chump or Champ move????

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Ive decided to go No Contact throughout the day, even though we live together and still do talk in the evenings....

    Now, im getting texts asking me why am i being such an ass to her....

    Good or bad??

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    bad dude. if you ask her to move out she will, but then she will see that she made the right call. unless you really are moving on from her, i wouldnt do it. thats probably the wrst tjing to do right now, and right below that is talking to her about your relationship with her, where its been where its going or how upset you are about anything
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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    so all i gotta be doing now is....

    1.stay "no contact" for most of the day even though im now being called an ass for ignoring her?

    2.When i see her at night after work, be polite, and act as if im doing incredibly well, (and actually takes the steps needed to be DOING, incredibly well)

    3.When she goes out at night sleeping over at this other dudes place she is now friends with, i just dont say shit, and leave it be....


    Am i correct in my assessment? And are there any other hints anyone could give me re: this??

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    firstly i like that you segmented this. it makes responding a lot easier.

    1. i wouldnt really go nc, i would maybe got allc for a lot less contact lmao. just tell her your too busy to respond to her texts and calls considering you should be busy and if your not, make yourself busy. go practice game. seriously your game will improve and your life will get a lot better. for real, it will help your situation a lot in due course.

    2. exactly, and that goes hand in hand with my response to point one. act like you dont need her.

    3. yes. thats the alpha thing to do. pissing and moaning about it, telling her how you feel, asking her to move out, and all that is extremely beta, if you read that thread i posted, cody explains really well how you need to becoma and remain alpha. its kinda a slap to the face but tbh thats what you need lol.
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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Im having trouble closing.... and i STILL miss the ex a WHOLE LOT!!!! I think of her constantly.... exept weekends when im tranquilised by alcohol, friends and partying.... Ive opened quite a few sets since the break-up.... and DHV'd....

    but i just cant seem to close the deal... and what im noticing is that the next day, shes lost complete interest.. and hence, i lose interest too because then im back to being hung up on the ex... she has now moved out...

    its now 3 weeks after the breakup, should i still be THIS fucked up over her?? and still miss her THIS much?

    Is NO CONTACT still the way forwrd....

    what about if she contacts me regarding a few loose ends???

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by andre.eishkas View Post
    its now 3 weeks after the breakup, should i still be THIS farked up over her?? and still miss her THIS much?
    Well its pretty normal, all people move through break up at different speeds. But you seem as though you haven't let go. You need to accept that it is over and she is not coming back. It is a much healthier attitude, only then will you be able to move on.

    Do not contact her! if you do you will throw yourself right back to square one and it will just hurt that much more for that much longer.

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    you should call her and text her, like nonstop. seriously just call till she answers im sure she will think its the cutest thing to see that she has twenty missed calls and unread messages every time she wakes up.

    now that im done telling you what you wanna hear, maybe now that shes moved out you cam realize that yoir no different from every other guy out there trying to get his ex back, and you might just follow the threads that the all stars were nice enough to put together for you. every guy that wants his ex back just wants to talk to her, and your no different. your still looking for every possible excuse to contact her and im not gonna lie to you, its really beta and kinda pathetic considering its been three weeks. if you read cody's thread i gave you like you should have you would know that she ended it because your not a man, and after reading all these posts, i will back that theory up myself. work on that.

    stop looking for reasons to contact her, or allow her to contact you. loose ends are fine but talk about that over text with quick messages. above all though. STOP TRYING TO GET YOUR EX BACK. as long as your trying it wont happen. it MIGHT happen as soon as you STOP trying. sooner or later your going to realize its more important that you fix your own problems for yourself rather than her, and when that day comes your going to be a lot more appealing to women everywhere.

    somebody had to be tough on you and i dont see anybody else doing it so there ya go.
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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    ive read the threads.... hence me trying to get back into the game as fast as possible.... But yes, all im trying to do is to find a simple straight forward way of getting her back, and thats not really working for me i guess.... At night when im out gaming... im on top of the world... im even gaming chicks with boyfriends with nooo problem... and no closing unfortunately.... But its during the day, when im stuck at home when it hits me.... U keep thinking about, whats she up to, whats she doing... and it fucking breaks me.... Im a CHUMP and this has NEVER happened before....

    I need to CLOSE!!!!! and do it quickly, as i believe that once im over this closing problem, and i start getting "physical" attention from women again, this Chump BS will start to subside....


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