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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    YOU NEED TO OCCUPY YOUR TIME!

    If you are sitting around at home during the day and thinking of her then go and do something else! Build a shed, play football go to the gym.

    You need to do things that will keep you mind active, other wise you will mope!

    Its not easy but It really does get easier with time.

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Absolutely sad. Listen dude, you've been told what to do. Of course you are an ultimate beta clinging on to this girl's approval. It's okay, you're not over her and that's fine. Shit happens, but it's time to move. Listen, this girl REALLY doesn't respect you or see you as a man of value anymore, essentially she friend zoned you after 5 months of 'dating you'. The fact that she is doing what she is doing so openly tells anyone she is getting a kick out of it. I think you have gotten some decent advice here, but YOU should move out ASAP. Or kick her out. Seriously, it seems you can financially do it, so go ahead.

    You are doing well on No contact. Keep it up. When she messages you, message her back a cold but not rude message. Take a day to respond, she isn't priority anymore. If she asks why you're being an ASS...don't say you're busy. Don't explain yourself to her. Don't have her control the frame by questioning you.

    Essentially, if you want to get her back you need to CHANGE everything about the way she sees you now (which is BETA, jealous, needy, insecure). This doesn't happen with you living with her on being in touch constantly. You have to 'tear it down' and build it back up. So keep your gaming, even if you aren't f-closing keep practicing. Visit places she does with your hot dates. That's a start. She will see other girls want you and she will take note.

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Being seen with other girls, post above is so right. Women go mental when they realise you are seeing someone else.

    My ex dumped me in Sept, she kept asking me if I was seeing other people by text. I told her to stop messaging me as it was none of her business any more.

    a friend of hers spotted me on a date and she sent me a really angry message "how can you move on so fast, I meant nothing to you... etc etc."

    I responded simply telling her that she knew that wasn't true but that I'm moving on with my life.

    5 minutes later she asked me to get back together

    2 days later I told her I wasn't interested.


    The point of this story is that I started off desperate to get her back but when I looked back I simply wasn't happy with her. The more I tried to move on the more I realised that I deserved so much better. So when the decision came to resurrect the relationship I chose not to purely because it wasn't what I wanted!

    Read and learn for there is wisdom above lol!

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Being seen with other girls, post above is so right. Women go mental when they realise you are seeing someone else.

    My ex dumped me in Sept, she kept asking me if I was seeing other people by text. I told her to stop messaging me as it was none of her business any more.

    a friend of hers spotted me on a date and she sent me a really angry message "how can you move on so fast, I meant nothing to you... etc etc."

    I responded simply telling her that she knew that wasn't true but that I'm moving on with my life.

    5 minutes later she asked me to get back together

    2 days later I told her I wasn't interested.


    The point of this story is that I started off desperate to get her back but when I looked back I simply wasn't happy with her. The more I tried to move on the more I realised that I deserved so much better. So when the decision came to resurrect the relationship I chose not to purely because it wasn't what I wanted!

    Read and learn for there is wisdom above lol!

    Excellent example. You were gaming way better chicks at that point, why go back? Good job.

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    good advice guys, but i posted a thread with everything he needed to go about this the right way, but for some reason, he doesnt want to listen. my advice to you is to either do what i say, more what cody said, otherwise you can keepbeing afc and kiss your chances goodbye. YOU have the potential to get her back, the afc person you have been and continue to act like does not.plain and simple
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    how do you move on from relationships? because i can tell you, i barely ever move on from one the same as another. moved on from my last because she died, the one before that because i met somebody new ( the ex that died) and the one before that because she cheated on me, and the one before that because after a month of moping i just got over it. you can move on however you want and in your own way but however you do it, you dont want her to see how your dealing with it until you can control the frame. your not living with her anymore so now your free to do that. if you wanna sit at home and cry, do it. sometimes thats what it takes.
    if you wanna keep yourself busy, go ahead and do that.
    do whatever it takes to move on because until you accept that its over and move on, you have no chance.

    your on here looking for the magic words that will make her want to be with you and im straight up telling you they dont exist. this is a matter of making a better you and then showing her once your complete.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Ok Screw this ex business..... Ive taken to heart what everyone has said.. and Yes, ive read every single thread posted.....

    Everyone is right dude... i dont really know if i wanna get back with HER, or just the feeling of being with, her..... So screw that... im out gaming, i will be using all the advice ive gotten sofar....

    MY PROBLEM, is closing at the moment.... Ive opened a few sets the past few weeks..even getting the whole set to dump they guys they came there with... and go somewhere else with myself and my (non PUA) wingman.... So opening the set, and getting them interrested i got NO problem with... but im stuck on k & f closing.... any threads on these?? I number close... but the next day.... they seem much less interrested than what they did the night before.....

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Quote Originally Posted by andre.eishkas View Post
    Ok Screw this ex business..... Ive taken to heart what everyone has said.. and Yes, ive read every single thread posted.....

    Everyone is right dude... i dont really know if i wanna get back with HER, or just the feeling of being with, her..... So screw that... im out gaming, i will be using all the advice ive gotten sofar....

    MY PROBLEM, is closing at the moment.... Ive opened a few sets the past few weeks..even getting the whole set to dump they guys they came there with... and go somewhere else with myself and my (non PUA) wingman.... So opening the set, and getting them interrested i got NO problem with... but im stuck on k & f closing.... any threads on these?? I number close... but the next day.... they seem much less interrested than what they did the night before.....
    Kiss-closing is about two things 1) building attraction 2) having a bit of bottle!

    For 1, you need to learn how to kino search it there are lots of threads. The basic idea being you don't want the first time you touch her to be a kiss, its better if she's familiar with your touch. Even a simple high five is better than nothing!

    for 2, well thats up to you really! that's all inner game.

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    hey all,

    So i havnt been posting in a while, as ive been focussing in getting back in the game and working on my inner game....

    Ive went NO CONTACT with my ex and for the past few weeks ive been in field with great success.... made out with quite a few and even f-closed two girls...

    Today, for the first time i made contact with my ex, and invited her for a quick lunch... (She works close by)

    She agreed and we met up.... She was really friendly and the conversation was good.. no relationship talk or anything just general talk....

    I did some very light gaming. made eye contact a liiitle more than usual without being creepy and i could see her noticing, but she kept the eye contact.. She was explaining something to me when she grabbed my hands.... i told her, hold on.... cant do that yet.... and smiled.... IOI?

    when we got up, she grabbed my keys and glasses off the table before i was able to get them and kept them while we sorted out the bill... IOI??

    I dropped her off at work, when she said... Now the NEXT TIME WE GO SOMEWHERE, you should drive through to the parking lot. ( i never indicated that id even consider seeing her again)

    Guys, even seeing other girls... i still really truly believe that she is the one....

    What should and should i not read into from what just happened, and HOW do i go forward from here.... I dont think she wants to get back together yet... but im SURE with the right game and patience, we should get there....

    Any feedback and advice will be appreciated....

    P.S if im still being BETA, i need to know this too!!!!

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    Default Re: how do i go about getting back my ex-girlfriend?

    Sounds like she is definitely interested. The key in my humble opinion to get back with an ex is to not get caught back in the relationship trap right away. Keep things the way they are, casual, fun, flirty. Let her come to you man, she's interested. Let her initiate contact next.

    Don't talk about your feelings for her
    Don't be Beta
    Don't 'ask her out' date style
    DO FLIRT
    DO KINO


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