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    Default Want to Make this a LTR

    I have one girl who I just met two nights ago, didn't even k close or anything (because I hooked up with another girl that night), but got her number.

    Next night we hung out and bam yup. f-close

    She's ridiculously attracted. Texting me every four hours (I've never started a convo, always her). Even got 3 pics (very, very good ones) without even asking.

    She moved to a new school, so I don't think it is that she is really easy or anything, just really wants it

    My question is. How can I not text her all day, but keep the attraction?

    I've already played the phone battery died thing, and wait 3-5 hours before responding anyway. But I'm getting bored of just keep texting flirty things about sex all day non stop.

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    Default Re: Want to Make this a LTR

    Your question is on text game, not LTR. And my expertice is on MLTR, managing "multiple" long term.

    Check out T-Mal's guide for text info, he's much better at this
    ** http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

    That said, a few tips.

    First, you don't need to apologize for why you didn't respond right away.

    Second, since she's showing alot of interest in you, you can show some interest in her, just not constant interest. You can tell her you're looking forward to seeing her, etc. The key is to be somewhat inconsistent.

    Text her random things, funny texts. "Hey, you just popped into my head, now try to stay out of there" Out of the blue, make a little more mystery.

    Anyway, read T-Mal's stuff, he's solid on his text game.
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    Default Re: Want to Make this a LTR

    Red Baron has a point. It's ok to show some interest if she is showing some. Just make sure she always shows a little more interest than you. If you don't want to talk about sex, then don't. Tell her she needs to calm down. Playfully of course.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Want to Make this a LTR

    Hey Purple M,
    I was wondering if you could explain these two in a little bit more depth: "o Roll-off
    o Lock-in"
    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Want to Make this a LTR

    Meh, we banged in less then an hour of meeting. Not healthy for any relationship I think so that's why I want to make it a purely sexual thing. I don't know why but my AFC me is kinda catching feelings, honestly just because I feel bad for her in a way.

    I'm actually really turned off because it was just too easy. I think what I'm trying to say is how can I make this more exciting, because I'm just bored of her always trying to get with me lol.

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    Default Re: Want to Make this a LTR

    You could stalk her. Then she would grow tired of you and you could chase her all over again lol.

    Honestly it's really up to her to hold up her end. If she doesn't do her part to keep things exciting than that's on her.
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    Default Re: Want to Make this a LTR

    I also think because we banged so fast and literally just skipped the whole comfort stage the sex wasn't as good because we couldn't just be comfortable with ourselves.

    Maybe for her that is normal but when someone is completely open and comfortable with the person it is 10x better sex.

    One line/routine (haven't tested it but learned from some PUA book a while ago) I'm going to use to develop sexual comfort is. Really key to say it with a strong, authoritive voice like, this is how its going to be type attitude

    "Listen, now I don't care what you do outside. But when you're in this room with me you can do whatever you want that makes you have a good time. If you're having a good time, I'll be having a good time as well and that makes a If you want to call me daddy and make you scream, if you want me to be scratching your back, tell you I love you... whatever you need we'll do that.

    But when you leave the room, you're back to normal. In here you can be whatever you want."

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    Default Re: Want to Make this a LTR

    I know what you mean. Something about setting those rules allows them to act a certain way because it's the rules.

    If I'm getting to know a woman for the first time (before sex) I usually like to play a question game with them where basically the rules are like truth or dare, except there is no dare. So they answer my questions because they "have" to. It's the rules!! Very easy to make it into a sexual conversation.
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