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    Default Need help ASAP on long term game

    I'm a male, 18, from Sweden. I've scored plenty of American girls in the US and Mexico after reading The Game and a sh1tload of forum threads.

    What I need help with now is the following:

    Girls in my school have started to see me more as a friend and discarded the possibility of getting it on with me. This is ok with me, but there is this one girl in my school which I find pretty hot, (probably a 9 if you're American). Today, I don't know how, but I ended up with a deal with her on going to the movies and watch Skyfall on Friday. I don't really talk much to this girl other than saying hi to her from time to time and striking up small conversations (really not that often), and I actually kind of ignore her as much as i can without being an asshole.

    My question is: How do I get her to see me as more than just a possible friend on the first date? in other words, how do I not fark this up?? BTW I'm a good looking guy, but not so tall (1,73), this girl is probably as tall as me if not slightly taller, and her last bf was like 24 years old or something... so I would appreciate some serious heavy artillery advice on this one!

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    Be the sh1t.

    Play the cocky fun thing and make her work for your validation. You're saying that her ex was 24? You're framing this as if she is a 9 and you're a 6 and you're lucky to be with her. Nah, she is lucky to be with YOU. Reverse the frame.

    Generally I find school pickup the hardest thing to do. You're sitting in classes and always have to be at top level. Even if you don't wanna see her you're forced to. But it can work for sure.

    Build lots of attraction on the date. Run some routines. Make her pay. Seriously, I haven't payed for stuff in months. If she questions it just say, aren't you a strong independent women?

    If she tries to make a move on you or acts flirty just say, "wow, wow let's take things slow, at least buy me dinner I like to be wined and dined!" cocky + funny.

    Always, even in a relationship, make sure she is working for your validation, not you working for hers.

    Let me know if you want me to get more specific with theory, routines, lines etc good luck bro!

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    as an icebreaker for light kino for the first date just after i meet, i offer my arm (to link with hers) and say "shall we?" (as in take my arm and lets go where we're going - smile), snowball effect

    ^don't underestimate Purple's advice, it's crucial, as is kino

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    Thanks purple and hyp! I'll remember to reverse the frame and make her work for my attention, and as to the routines and lines I think I'll just find some good ones that could work well with this specific girl the only thing here is about the paying part, should i just throw here in there in front of the cashier and make her pay for the tickets? we're obviously not gonna split the price so its either her or me that'll pay…I'd just feel weird letting her pay, but maybe it's just me….also should i pick her up? (she lives at a walking distance from my place and the movies) or just tell her to meet me there? i can do the arm kino either way…any thoughts??

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    bring exact change, just say to the cashier "yeah here's mine" if she's a gold digger it'll be awkward, which in turn you don't want :-) gotta <3 coins oh yea don't pay for her time, you don't need to thank you

    just tell her to meet at the xyz place and you'll go from there

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    Also, if she tries to LBJF you, tell her "friend's don't put each other into boxes" and if she tries rejecting this then tell her maybe you just aren't interested in her friendship (maybe fake takeaway?)

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    Cool Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    Quote Originally Posted by Thomas Jefferson View Post
    Also, if she tries to LBJF you, tell her "friend's don't put each other into boxes" and if she tries rejecting this then tell her maybe you just aren't interested in her friendship (maybe fake takeaway?)
    ejecting with the "it was a pleasure meeting you" style

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    okay so here's the deal...the day after i worte this i met her downtown, we were in the bank and i when she was done i told her to wait up for me...she said the ice cream shop was open and asked me to have one with her. She even said 'this is almost like a date' when we were sitting there. After the ice cream i told her i had something to show her and i took her to the old part of town where i used to have an apartment, after that we kept walking and she mentioned she never had been up the towns cathedral and i told her we could go up there, so i sneaked us in and went all the way up the tower. I found out she was scared of heights but that just made it funnier and more exciting for her. We talked and laughed and shared a lot of things with each other. Right now im thinking on telling her to join me ice skating tomorrow, where i'll have the cance to hold her hand and run some routines like the strawberry field and the evolution phase shift...but here's my question, is it TOO soon to run the evolution phase shift routine? i know that when i run it ill be going for the kiss right after...so do you think the times right??

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    the time is right when you feel like the time is right, we're not in your shoes
    but seriously, man up and do some kino, and then man up even more and ask her if she's a good kisser after u do your routines, take it from there

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    Default Re: Need help ASAP on long term game

    Definitely time for it, here's what I would do, tell her she's adventurous, later tell her to close her eyes (maybe after you've been skating together and holding hands for a bit and you two are taking a break, ie: sitting on the bench) tell her to close her eyes, before you do this run your fingers through her hair and sit somewhat closely, when she closes her eyes maybe after a little fluff, kiss her on the lips, if she gets mad, say "sorry, thought you were a more adventurous person" haha, if not, continue and tell us about it


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