Re: Really bad night :/ what do u lot do?
Like Cody said, it's just one of those nights. Going to a club to sarge is sort of like playing a football (soccer) match in this manner. You will have your nights where you will be on top form, everything seems easy and everything falls into place. Other nights will be average where you will feel that the job was done and you did ok. Other nights you will just not feel it and like everything just seems hard no matter what, it happens. The best thing to do is to pick yourself up and write it off and just keep improving.
Plus you're at the stage I'm at (well I'm getting out of it) where you know what you're capable of and complacency sinks in with the comfort you have in the environment. You're used to success and success never makes anyone truly happy.
I also get an aura that you becoming outcome dependant which also happened to me in October and November. You feel as though you had success that it should repeat but when it doesn't you feel down but it never happened in the early stages because you weren't outcome dependant and you where just training and trying new things out. As Tyler said in RSD that when you grow out of becoming a beginner your expectations increase and this is where outcome dependency comes into play.
Snap out of it, you made approaches, you did your bidding. So what if you didn't get pussy or numbers on that night, you at least approached which is the main thing. Keep approaching because an infinite amount of things can happen in an interaction and if you never made the approach, you will never know mate.
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