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Thread: Really bad night :/ what do u lot do?

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    Default Really bad night :/ what do u lot do?

    I was wondering what you guys do if your having a really bad night? Like for some reason I was just terrible tonight every set I opened I stumbled through the opener, like it seemed everyone had bf's, I wasn't bad enough where it was just bitch shield most seemed genuine.

    And then I had no motivation to approach after he first few I was just pushing it cus I'd feel shit if I didn't :L like I don't get why I wasn't getting anywhere....my social proof was sky high.....I knew most the bar staff and one of the barmaids is an MLTR of mine and was kissing me over the bar etc. it was bad as well as I didn't see hardly any HB's that I actually considered really hot I don't think that helped :/

    ohhhh and to top it off, I k closed a friend of a friend but he has f closed her in the past so I felt really awkward and didn't wana do it again and then as I left she leant over to me and was like 'shall we k close' in a sarcastic manner as if she was taking the piss, so my mate, the only guy who knows I do pick up must have told her. Which is fucking shit :/ I don't know how to handle this cus she's just annoyed cus I said no to her :/ overall I discovered that even when you are really up for it and confident and have awesome social proof you can still have a bad night :L haven't quite decided if there is anything useful I can learn from this.....if you can see anything.....please let me know :/ peace out

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    Default Re: Really bad night :/ what do u lot do?

    look man, this is not what i'd call a bad night.you made multiple approaches, and even got a k-close. i bet those girls lagitly had boyfriends, at least you made convorsation with most of them. many of these afcs might go to a club and not even approach a single girl. i know that when i go to clubs your idea of a bad night would be my idea of a good night,(i am far better at daygame) you at least got past their b!tch sheilds. i usually get slaughtered when i approach girls in clubs (or amogged by guys who are older than me) you did alot better than you think you've done

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    Default Re: Really bad night :/ what do u lot do?

    And then as I left she leant over to me and was like 'shall we k close' in a sarcastic manner as if she was taking the piss, so my mate, the only guy who knows I do pick up must have told her. Which is farking sh1t :/ I don't know how to handle this cus she's just annoyed cus I said no to her :/

    I would have laughed then said, "That was funny! You know what else is funny?? Go f*ck yourself! " Then laughed more as I walked away.

    Sometimes it's okay to have your own pity party, just as long as you do it by yourself. We all have our moments. It's unrealistic to think that you're bulletproof all of the time. Step aside from reality to do what you need to, but when you come back be ready to go hard. Be strong for others and have your weak moments alone.

    And drop that friend. He sounds like a sh*thead.
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    Default Re: Really bad night :/ what do u lot do?

    I did tell her to go fuck herself :L she was just pissed off that I wouldn't keep making out with her :L and I spoke to him this morning and he's claiming he didn't tell her :L I'm past caring tbh, everyone already knows I'm good with girls, if they figure out why.....then so be it
    Cheers guys, I feel better about it now than I did last night anyway, it's just unusual for me to not get anywhere with night game, and I totally bombed out doing day game all day as well....which for the record is hard as anything :L but persistence is definitely key

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    Default Re: Really bad night :/ what do u lot do?

    Like Cody said, it's just one of those nights. Going to a club to sarge is sort of like playing a football (soccer) match in this manner. You will have your nights where you will be on top form, everything seems easy and everything falls into place. Other nights will be average where you will feel that the job was done and you did ok. Other nights you will just not feel it and like everything just seems hard no matter what, it happens. The best thing to do is to pick yourself up and write it off and just keep improving.

    Plus you're at the stage I'm at (well I'm getting out of it) where you know what you're capable of and complacency sinks in with the comfort you have in the environment. You're used to success and success never makes anyone truly happy.

    I also get an aura that you becoming outcome dependant which also happened to me in October and November. You feel as though you had success that it should repeat but when it doesn't you feel down but it never happened in the early stages because you weren't outcome dependant and you where just training and trying new things out. As Tyler said in RSD that when you grow out of becoming a beginner your expectations increase and this is where outcome dependency comes into play.

    Snap out of it, you made approaches, you did your bidding. So what if you didn't get pussy or numbers on that night, you at least approached which is the main thing. Keep approaching because an infinite amount of things can happen in an interaction and if you never made the approach, you will never know mate.
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    Default Re: Really bad night :/ what do u lot do?

    Yeah I know I always approach and have loads of success, I mean Iv got a few girls hanging on my every word ATM :L but it just bugged me cus I was really up for it and it turned out shit, I was annoyed at my mates as well cus we didn't even go to the club we were supposed to and it's a much better club :L anyway....onwards and upwards

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