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    dynamix is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default After the first date?

    Met a girl on Friday night out and got her number. Went out for dinner on Monday and I feel like the date went well and we clicked pretty well. At the end of the night I go to give her a hug and she says "you should be more confident" then she starts making out with me! We say our good byes.

    I text her on way home "Thanks for spending your evening with me. I really enjoyed your company and believe your a really great girl. If your free this weekend maybe we can get together"

    She texts me that night "Thank you for such a wonderful evening. Had so much fun and would love to see you again".

    Tuesday morning I say "Had fun last night... Hope you have a great day."

    She no replies all day...... so i texted her after work Busy day? and replies "ya sorry"

    This is the last message. Today is now Wednesday not sure when I should message her next or if i should wait to hear from her first? or how to proceed.

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    striker12 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: After the first date?

    You accpeted her frame with the "you need to be more confident". Always go for the kiss if there a IOI.

    Your texts sound abit needy. Really running up her ar5e. you should have text the next day saying you had a good time i agree that but the mistake "im free this weekend if......." never ask a girl to do anything you need toTELL her.

    "im free this weekend, im gona go and get some drinks at *insert place*. See you there at 7:32"

    Always assume attraction.

    For now leave her for afew days and text something totally random such as " was at lunch today and the waitress had a huge tash, you should of seen it" (credit to T-Mal)

    If she doesnt reply sack it off and move on. I find in most cases once they see your not chasing they start to run after you.

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    qdown is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: After the first date?

    1) why are you thanking her for spending time with you? your time is just as good as hers

    2)the really great girl was too much buddy your giving her too much up front.

    3) you texted her, she didnt reply back and you texted again. Thats a no no. if she wants to text you she will.

    I would have personally texted her about an hour later after the date just saying "hope you made it to your distination safe . later.

    Then after about two days I would have just called her, gave a little small talk and then said something like "you know I thought it was cool hanging out with you that night. We should do it again (let her respond), then say you know what i have this time and this time open you should meet up with me.

    Now the follow up situation, if it was me i'd let her hit me back up because of how the whole situation went but that's just me.
    If someone knows they are being chased they are in the drivers seat and will usually take advantage


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