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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    That's actually pretty interesting. The only thing is I'm pretty sure freezing out doesn't typically work but what do I know? I think even that still boils down to texting the tight things and making them interesting so that she will have that random positive thought about texting you later on. And thats the part I need help on. Getting into some interesting convos.

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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    You don't have to lose her forever when 'freezing her out' You will just lose all your progress and can start from scratch again. I'd recommend if you notice freezing isn't working drop a text and while freezing make yourself better so you have more value when contact is re-initiated.

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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    Texting girls.. The ultimate issue. I have struggled with this as well. The best thing I have found is to not reply.. Freeze them out.

    Only reply if when she does, and make sure you waited as long as she did. Ignore one of her texts, and don't reply until the next day or even a few days.

    This will make you look like you have a life, and she'll be more likley to reply back.

    Only exception is if she ivites you out, but this is rare. At first at least. This is really all I've found so far.

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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    Yeah, i think Freezing out obviously should only be used if you think you have lost attraction. If She is really in to you,obviously don't freeze her out but instead control the tempo.

    I use freeze outs when i think a girl is losing interest. At that point, i think she either lose more interest, or starts to wonder why all of a sudden it seems like I've lost interest and she could lose me.

    This mostly only works on girls you have built either a lot of attraction or comfort with. If you've just met her, and not much history has happened.. obviously this wont work.

    From personal experience, usually it works best with girls who use to like you but due to you texting her too much or if she is just getting too stuck up, stops liking you as much.

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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    So I realized today that I think my problem with saying the wrong thing and jut not finding a whole lot to talk about only happens later not because I start thinking about trying to get somewhere with her (although that's quite possibly still a factor) but because the first conversation always comes very naturally to me cuz I can sit there with her four a couple hours even talking because those initial getting to know eachother convos are simple and easy. After that though I have to find new material since I can't goner old stuff again. How should I take it from there? I'm real bad at the I'n between zone

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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    Also how do I get out of the friend zone? Because that probably has to come next with this. And some more info with the girl is I'm actually going to NY for winter break but she is going to Florida for it, so she won't even be there when I am since she goes to school there. Should I way to do anything all together because of this?

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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    When you send a message always forget about it and stop thinking about "what ifs". Once sent there is nothing you can do until the response. Any message sent after the initial will likely DLV you (second guessing yourself). Send it and move on with your day. Dont go checking your phone every 5 mins. Thats not what alpha's do and you want to be alpha or atleast portray yourself as alpha). Gotta fake it will you make it

    Another good initiating text that surprisingly works wonders is a riddle. Make it something stupid and idiotic. One i have used frequently recently is:
    ME: What has a bottom at the top?
    HB: Oh i dunno
    ME: Your legs lol
    HB: blah blah blah

    Its almost always easy to move the conversation onwards from there. The first time i tried this i was sceptical but now i use it on almost all girls after texting for a little bit. It also is something different which will break the girl out of auto pilot.

    Skept

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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    @Shadow

    Surely after meetign her for hours and being able to keep the convo going it will get easier as time goes on? The more you know someone the easier it is to talk to them for long periods of time is it not? Talk about anything and keep it fun and light and flirty! talk about how her day was etc anything cool you heard.....talk about life. I havent used any routines after the pick up stage and on day 2's etc.

    As for the friend zone question, you gotta ask yourself this question. What is it you want from this girl?
    Sometimes the dynamics of a meetup just arent there and it doesnt work out. Therefore you gotta move on. If you are not going to be able to meet up with this girl for a long time the only way to increase attraction is through text. It is always harder to get them to change your mind on you after them deciding than it is for them to have you as a suitor from the beginning.

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    Default Re: Getting her to start new text conversations?

    I don't quite understand your last sentence Skeptikill. and ya, you would think that if i can initially talk to her for that long that I could easilly start later conversations, but especially in text, I just can never seem to do it. and most of the time, in that first "encounter," it seem to go really well and seems like there is some attraction but idk, I just can never think of new texting conversations about any of those topics that would last more than, idk, 4 texts; maybe less. and the other weird thing is that I am great at reading people and situations when i'm not directly involved, but I am just oblivious when it comes to me.


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