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    Default How to handle a busy girl?

    Hello people,

    so here is the deal. I went out with a girl a couple of times. She is into me and I like her too. The thing is this girl is too busy. She is not avoiding for sure because she asked me for coffee a few days ago, today I asked her to go out and she said yes, but she has something booked for the next 4 days, then she is free for a day and then booked for the next 4 days again. She isn't the kind of girl to play games and if she wants to date someone else she will come forward and say it. Plus she has 5 different hobbies one for each day of the week, tennis, gym, painting etc etc. She is a busy person.

    I don't expect her to drop everything to meet up with me but how do I handle such a girl? I mean I can't keep asking her out once every 4 days or she rarely asks me to meet. Maybe its too early but I don't know how to handle this.

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    Default Re: How to handle a busy girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by kingotto View Post
    I mean I can't keep asking her out once every 4 days or she rarely asks me to meet. Maybe its too early but I don't know how to handle this.
    Why can't you? Sure you can just see her every 4 days. "too early" - too early for what? Getting one-itis? Yeah, it is. Go sarge a few more #-closes and grab four other girls to fill the days imbetween the dates with this one ...but srsly.

    P.s. is it "imbetween" or "inbetween"?
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    Default Re: How to handle a busy girl?

    Well the reason for this is because she is enjoying life and you are not that important to her as yet. Stop being so possessive, its clear that she is the adventurous type. If you planning on being a spark in her life you need to also be adventurous. Aut spoke on sarging, you can do that too or you can go biking on a trail. You need to be busy yourself so when you do see her you have loads of stuff to talk about.

    What you can also do is, if you reach that stage, is that when you and her have been dating for month or so and have established a connection you can invite her to one of your fun activities. She will love you for that, and she may invite you to hers as well.

    You see where I am getting at? After a while you will become an important piece in her life to the point she wants you to be there to enjoy her adventures with her.

    Good luck.
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