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    Default Expert advice needed- Disqualifier

    So in dealing with an HB9 I met at work, I built attraction, showed DHV and n-closed. Now as many of you guys know I am working on my text game and it is improving but still not where it needs to be. With this girl I have high status (She has seen me with other HBs, commented on it, etc.)

    So in our conversations I was doing push pull and cocky funny. Lots of teasing.

    She said:

    I think we like each other....

    Me: Possibly

    Her: Thought so

    Me: I have friend-zoned you though.

    Her: It's okay, I friend zoned you way before.

    Me: Haha, you can't fire me because I quit approach. How clever of you

    She said bye because she was going to the gym.

    Opinions? I believe she was taken by it (she always qualifies herself to me) but she plays push pull really well also. She has game lol. So was it a defense statement?

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    Default Re: Expert advice needed- Disqualifier

    She initiates all texts by the way.

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    Default Re: Expert advice needed- Disqualifier

    She's the one who said "I think we like each other". That in itself should answer your question. She's just responding to your disqualification in the best way that she can come up with. Take it as a big IOI

    You're doing well. You're teasing is solid and your timing was spot on. Good work.
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    Default Re: Expert advice needed- Disqualifier

    Thanks Bandit. You are right. Just this morning she initiated conversation again, invited me over a couple of times for tonight. I politely told her I had a date. But I would let her know when I was free.

    Hahah she then asked when I was free...I think that friend zone text really does wonders.

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    Default Re: Expert advice needed- Disqualifier

    Sounds like you had her on the hook for the start. But good move.

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    Default Re: Expert advice needed- Disqualifier

    no matter how much a woman denies her attraction, u must continue stick to ur guns.

    ur doing things, right - so don't let doubt creep in ur mind. don't need to analyze her response. u shoot on point and don't have time to worry.

    if u worry abt why she hasn't taken to u yet, remember that
    1) the bigger the catch - the better ur game should be

    -- u can imagine how much game she has and how many guys fall to her.

    -- but that is not ur concern. u need to be strong - not think abt her perception because u r the catch, not her.

    i hope i reminded u where u stand - u seem to have been rattled.

    GL

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    i have had all types tell me i'm not their type... and i have SEEN their exs also and know that i am not their type.

    but in the end, believe in urself - u r the catch... be nice - polite - rely on ur PUA - and u will eventually steer her to u.

    trick her woman brain to keep wondering - she will begin to game u harder.

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    Default Re: Expert advice needed- Disqualifier

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    no matter how much a woman denies her attraction, u must continue stick to ur guns.

    ur doing things, right - so don't let doubt creep in ur mind. don't need to analyze her response. u shoot on point and don't have time to worry.

    if u worry abt why she hasn't taken to u yet, remember that
    1) the bigger the catch - the better ur game should be

    -- u can imagine how much game she has and how many guys fall to her.

    -- but that is not ur concern. u need to be strong - not think abt her perception because u r the catch, not her.

    i hope i reminded u where u stand - u seem to have been rattled.

    GL

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    MY EXPERIENCE
    i have had all types tell me i'm not their type... and i have SEEN their exs also and know that i am not their type.

    but in the end, believe in urself - u r the catch... be nice - polite - rely on ur PUA - and u will eventually steer her to u.

    trick her woman brain to keep wondering - she will begin to game u harder.
    Good solid advice. I have been busy with exams and work, and I have actually rejected her invitations on 2 occasions now. She texted me last night and I immediately tested her compliance by initiating sex talk. Went pretty well. She ended the convo with,..."so when are you taking me out for that drink?' Long story short, I am seeing her Friday, pretty sure I will get the F-close.


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