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Thread: Does The Game make you emotionless?

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    Cool Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    i'd rather be a robot with women...

    only when i start feeling can they begin to hurt me.

    thx to PUA, i am rarely hurt.
    as i had said earlier, pua makes you emotionaly strong. but once you become too strong wemon won't give you that same good feeling they used to. once you've been hurt so many times you learn not to allow your emotions to affect you. essentialy you become so numb that you miss out on what it feels like to be in love. you become so detached that no woman can ever be all that special to you anymore. this is whats commonly known as "seducers aura". it will happen to you eventually and once you get seducers aura you are never the same.

    its like the difference between watching a majic show when you're a kid and then watching that same majic show when your a professional majician. knowing the tricks makes it alot less majical.

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    Quote Originally Posted by Xmrider View Post
    A guy that I met recently told me that he has this friend who knows a lot about PUA and that he is practically able to predict the behaviour of any girl in any situation. This skill of his supposedly makes it no fun for him to pickup girls.


    Looking at myself in the recent couple of months (all started after a break up) I met many girls and I honestly have not been able to engage any feelings for any of them. With the PUA skills that I have I was wondering whether I have too many options and am therefore not commiting myself. I have basically stopped meeting any new girls as it came to the point where I met up with girls practically every day and I was not counting how many dates I have, but when will I have a day just for myself... to cook for myself and just for myself, to read a book, to watch a movie... on my own!


    I wouldn't call myself in any way a master of PUA, as I need to be in the mood for sarging, I still have approach anxiety and glitches do happen (though I do notive them instantly).


    Maybe I still have not met the oneitis,
    or maybe after 2 bad break ups subconsiouly I am not willing giveaway my feelings,
    or maybe PUA skills make you emotionless?


    What are your thoughts?
    Of course when you have the skill to predict something you desire, it becomes more fun because you either know what to expect so you can plan accordingly or it's easier to get what you want out of it. For example, a dj who can predict what songs will get the best reaction out of the crowd or a meteorologist who can accurately predict what storms and air masses will do or a sports/game/casino player who can predict what moves the opponent will make will, of course, have more fun because they no longer have to try as hard to reach the desired outcome. The thrill in most of the examples I've mentioned is to get a desired outcome. It becomes more thrilling if (1) the desired outcome is rewarding in any way AND (2) you are confident that you have the skill to make it happen. However, contrary to what most people might believe, you do not lose the thrill of not knowing the final outcome because there are still odds that you could lose. You only add the extra thrill of knowing you have higher odds of turning things towards your favor.

    Personally speaking, PUA doesn't make me emotionless. But then again, this is from someone on the Autism Spectrum so of course my emotions and thoughts are much deeper than those of "normal people" so of course I can never truly be emotionless. But aside from that, I believe that there are always those girls you connect with more than others out of the pack. You will know it when there are certain girls you desire to be around more than others or if there is one that is better tan the rest in any way. Only difference is that once you master PUA, you will be hurt LESS whenever any women (regardless of status level on your personal chart) starts acting funny with you. Why? Because think of it this way; If you own and use multiple computers and one starts malfunctioning or completely breaks down, it will not be nearly as bad as if you have one computer and you're completely dependent on that ONE. Yes, maybe one of the computers may have more things in it that personally makes it more important and meaningful to you than the rest but you'll still feel a level of comfort knowing you have back up computers.

    When you have (or feel like you have) abundance, you can get over losses much faster and the pain of missing one stings less.

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    Hey guys what's up? I'm Dee. I just joined here. Sorry if I'm not up-to-date with the things around here. But I want to know what is "THE GAME" in general?

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    It actually makes you more in-tune with your emotions and authentic.

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    For me, personally, it is a double edge sword.
    - One on side - It tempers your confidence and hones your social skills that you need to network and be successful. You are no longer held back by the fear of rejection. This is applicable to other aspects in your life to find success, not just picking up women because I believe you are always selling yourself in whatever you do.
    - On the other side - if you are an artist and romantic at heart like me, it sucks. You run the big risk of being desensitized - you can no longer enjoy that magical feeling of being elated by 'love,' drawing inspiration. You will have trouble reciprocating that love because we were taught to not be 'nice, needy.' You are re-programmed, reconditioned to keep our alpha shield up.

    To me, this is the biggest challenge - the balance - not so much scoring women. Which is why I can never let myself be a full-time pro at this or as we call it "play in the major leagues." It's like learning a martial art. Pick up a skill-set and enrich other aspects of your life, but it doesn't mean I want to compete in MMA.

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    This might be an older thread but it is a continuation and I have to share this with you guys as it is quite funny... the other night I had dream about gaming an HB8. So I am working on her getting the attraction going and I am kinoing her. Slowly escalating it and then I go for the kiss close. She is hesitant, got a semi kiss close, so I back off and start to analyze where I went wrong. Was the kinoing done too early without enough rapport. With her in front of me I was really thinking about what I could have done better to get a real kiss close. I wasn't really concerned about the outcome and whether I could carry on from there, but moreover where my game failed... what I missed out on... which techique failed.

    And all that analysis happened in my dream PUA gets to your bones!
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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    I've always suffered from too much emotion, so I earnestly hope that this is the case.

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    it definetly desensitizes you. you become alot calmer and resistant to rejection and failure. you get to the point where you really don't care what happens as long as you learn from it (or at least thats where i'm at) however, pua has made me alot less attached to the girls i game. i think if you do this long enough you really will become near completely emotionaly detached from the girls you spend time with. it just becomes a game to you and you start to disregard the feelings of others as long as you get the desired outcome.

    also, if you learn too much about social sciences it sort of gos to your head and you constantly think about it (like i do) i am always thinking about the convo's i've had and what i could have done better and i constantly think about ways to better succeed at pua. its not neccissarily a bad thing, its just that i know more about social sciences than most college proffessors who teach courses on the subject :/

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    If it does think of it this way

    What doesn't kill your emotions only makes you stronger

    Or go Darwin theory of emotions it kills the weakest ones first

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    Personally this is what has happened to me..........Iv been gaming for like 3 years now and I'm a lot less likely to form an emotional attachment to someone. However it does still happen from time to time, and when it does I know that she is genuinely worthwhile me spending time with because I don't often form this attachment. Soo in a sense I fall for women less but fall harder when I do. That being said after a bad experience I am even able to look at this in a better light and ensure it don't get in my head too much.

    Linking x


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