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    Default Does The Game make you emotionless?

    A guy that I met recently told me that he has this friend who knows a lot about PUA and that he is practically able to predict the behaviour of any girl in any situation. This skill of his supposedly makes it no fun for him to pickup girls.


    Looking at myself in the recent couple of months (all started after a break up) I met many girls and I honestly have not been able to engage any feelings for any of them. With the PUA skills that I have I was wondering whether I have too many options and am therefore not commiting myself. I have basically stopped meeting any new girls as it came to the point where I met up with girls practically every day and I was not counting how many dates I have, but when will I have a day just for myself... to cook for myself and just for myself, to read a book, to watch a movie... on my own!


    I wouldn't call myself in any way a master of PUA, as I need to be in the mood for sarging, I still have approach anxiety and glitches do happen (though I do notive them instantly).


    Maybe I still have not met the oneitis,
    or maybe after 2 bad break ups subconsiouly I am not willing giveaway my feelings,
    or maybe PUA skills make you emotionless?


    What are your thoughts?

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    i feel about the same. i got a few girls with the new skills and i found it rose my standards of women. if you were ok with 5s( no one should be ) you now go for 6s you get the point. i almost cant go for anyone thats below an 8 to me now. and even then i find it hard to be caring about them i think they get to attached or cry to much. i know how you feel man
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    I had a girl break my heart and swore i would never let it happen again.

    the girl made me emotionless, pickup lets you control the emotions and have an edge on girls.

    i am definitely no master either, but i feel like no girl could fuck me over anymore and thats a very good feeling.

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    I took a "sociopath test" a couple days ago just for sh*ts and giggles. It was far from professional and really only one of those joke ones that you'll find various stupid places online, but I took it anyway because I was procrastinating.

    It said I was about 50/50, that I have sociopathic tendencies but understand societal norms. What I found most interesting was that if I had taken the test at different times in my life my answers would have been different. In other words, I became more sociopathic as time went on. We are products of our past. Pain makes us emotionall numb. We can aid ourselves in the process if we so choose by intentionally approaching women we don't care about with scripted material seeking validation we don't need, but there is a lot more going on than just that.

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    No way does it make you emotionless, don't get me wrong there may be some girls u sleep with cus there hot and no other reason, but Iv had a few girls that I lie there and make conversation with and genuinely enjoy there company and care for them. It's different to caring like an AFC does cus she can go out and do whatever she wants I don't really care, I'd still be there for her if she was having a tough day and needed to just curl up with someone and forget about it. Some people may claim this makes me seem like an AFC in her eyes, but it doesn't I mean after all MLTR is just another way of saying Friends with benefits, or no strings attached sex. She's still my friend and I look after my friends that's my view on it anyway, the game isnt about sleeping with everything that moves, it's about forging better and more meaningful relationships with women.......even if I do have more than one

    Rant over, peace out

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    yeah, i mean after a case of oneitis, or a bad breakup or what have you, you just train yourself to not show your emotions or let any girls get too close. the thing is though that you would do that even if you arent a pua. everybody does this, its to keep themselves safe. if your a pua though you understand emotions a lot better for the purpose of understanding women and to better game them. this in turn allows you to understand your own and control your own emotions a lot better.

    i myself am not completely emotionless, but i definately show a lot less. a lot of the girls i have closed i still talk to, go out with, use as pivots, whatever.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    i feel about the same. i got a few girls with the new skills and i found it rose my standards of women. if you were ok with 5s( no one should be ) you now go for 6s you get the point. i almost cant go for anyone thats below an 8 to me now. and even then i find it hard to be caring about them i think they get to attached or cry to much. i know how you feel man
    What do you mean by no one should be ok with 5s? Fives are still humans that need love Someone has to be with them and that is ok, as long as it is not me !


    Whenever I looked at a woman I analysed quickly what would work on her, i.e. a game plan to get her! It got to the point where I said stop as whenever I met a decent girl my mind would switch to PUA thinking.

    On the other side when I looked at guys trying to make a move on girls and already up front I would see what would not work. I could see their mistakes in the course of actions. Furthermore when you are an alpha, then in the other non-PUA life you see so much more beta behaviour. I am happier in life but in a way you get more synical!
    I am thinking that maybe they are happier that way? There is a saying that is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved.

    I was wondering whether you can become a burnt out PUA at some point?

    @linking It is easy to cross the borderline. If you have girl that is your friend and she has a bad day you know when you could press the right buttons and it would turn in to more.

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    Cool Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    game doesn't make you into an emotionless psychopath, but it does make you emotionaly strong. with every rejection you face, the things girls say and do mean less to you, you stop caring what they will think, because you know that if she rejects you, you can have any other girl you want.
    as pua's we get emotionaly stronger every day we sarge, with every rejection. we become so strong that we really don't care what anyone thinks. nothing they say or do holds much significance to us

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    Quote Originally Posted by meteora View Post
    game doesn't make you into an emotionless psychopath, but it does make you emotionaly strong. with every rejection you face, the things girls say and do mean less to you, you stop caring what they will think, because you know that if she rejects you, you can have any other girl you want.
    as pua's we get emotionaly stronger every day we sarge, with every rejection. we become so strong that we really don't care what anyone thinks. nothing they say or do holds much significance to us
    Rejections not affecting you = less emotions
    What girls are saying meaning less to you= less emotions
    Not caring what anyone thinks = less emotions

    Of course PUA is good to learn when you are an AFC, like I was at one point in life. But is there not a point when you are overdoing it?

    Not being a master at PUA I am wondering what will happen if I improve on my skills? Will that mean even fewer emotions?

    All the dates and the predictability is boring,
    The whining of girls that I do not love them and being so needy for my time is a real pain. And then the next day they are sorry for being angry at me. The text messages with all the different proposals and kisses I receive it gets boring and annoying and there are only a couple of orbiterees (that is what I call girls that are craving for my interest). I do not know what I would do if there were more!

    Having options and high expectations is definately a good thing!
    What I am looking for is the oneitis, but is there one point where your expectations are simply too high?
    I am not saying that you should settle for second best, but is there a point where you get burn out?

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    Default Re: Does The Game make you emotionless?

    not caring what people think about you= not conforming to society, and being your own person.

    rejections not effecting you= simply realizing that there are other girls out there

    what girls say meaning less to you = alpha, or at leastless beta.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever


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