Hi, I'm new here. Been reading and learning alot about the PUA mastery in the last few weeks. However, I was unable to find some content related to my problem.
Few weeks back, I started working at another location of company of mine - where I saw her. We only exchange looks for a while, for the first week. By the end of the week, we had a company party and she was there. We got together, talked, went on partying by ourselves to another club since the company party was somewhat awful. Before we went to another club, we walked around (she held my hand by the elbow). So after we arrived there, we started dancing and because I've noticed that all evening she was giving me IOI's I kissed her there, you know the few seconds stare, no words and then kiss suddenly.
So we partied till like 4am, then I arranged for her to be driven off to another party, where she had to pickup some colleague which she promised he could sleep at her place (he's not from the city, so needed a stay over).
Next day I texted her like that I had fun last night, she replied that she had fun too and it's beautiful weather outside, naturaly I got that as an IOI and asked her out for a coffee, which she agreed upon. So we went outside for a coffee, talked, held hands and kissed for while - we were both hungover, so both of us were quite lazy When I dropped her off, later she told me she'd invite me to her place - but her roommate is a total b*tch and complains whenever somebody is at her place (I did not invite her to my place since it was a total mess - and i mean such a mess that I'd be ashamed bringing anyone over).
So fine, we texted some random stuff, and all was well. Then next day, when I saw her at work, we went for a smoke (and we were alone), so I leaned to her to get a kiss (probably a mistake) and she was like that nah, I don't want to do this at work, everybody's looking and talking if they see something. I said its cool, not to worry I won't brag to anyone about this.
Later that evening, I've asked her if she's free next day to hang out, she said that she would let me know - that she already has something in plan, of course the next day I waited for her to let me know but she didnt. Then the day after, texted her again and she responded, but said that she had fun in the weekend, but that she's going thru some stuff and doesn't think it's a good idea to involve anyone in it. I responded that it's cool, that I understand and if she wants to hang out sometime with no strings attached, to which she responded that she's not that kind of person - but that anything can happen.
So following days I was being a bit cocky to her - and she had laughed, but I've gone too far with using same subject and later told me that it ain't funny anymore. So few days passed again, in the meanwhile we gone for a cig (since we temporarily work in the same place). So few emails passed, txt also.. But I got the feeling I'm not getting any response, like everything is stuck at some point.
Now few days I decided to go totaly cold on her for 3 days, which she did notice. She didn't text me or anything, but when I went home from work, she dressed up quickly and came upstairs for a cig - I noticed that she was dressing up, but made some phonecall like that I'm not waiting for her outside. When I finished the call, I was stone cold to her like hey whats up and some useless talk about sleeping habits.. then I left.
Next day I texted her to call me when she come to work, so we go to smoke, but she responded that she ain't working that day (which was true).
Now all of this happened in 2 weeks. I've looked back and noticed I've might've been a bit needy (sigh) but on the other hand I don't get enough feedback from her to engage in anykind of conversation so I could use that to enhance the connection we had.
So I'm literally stuck at this point - nothing's moving anywhere. Should I just freeze her out completly and move on, or is there any other method I could try to reignite the connection?