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    Ben24626 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to overcome dislike of rejection?

    Hi, I am quite confident, but I dislike being rejected to the point that I very rarely ask a girl out or hit on one even though I know that it doesn't matter if I get rejected. I want to get with more girls, but whenever I have an opportunity to hit on one (which is rare when you take a computing degree) I choose not to. How can I make myself care less about rejection?

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    Default Re: How to overcome dislike of rejection?

    Basically get rejected enough were you become numb to it. Eventually you will not care and will be rejected less since you have more confidence.

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    Default Re: How to overcome dislike of rejection?

    Think of it like it's no big deal. So what if she's good looking or awesome, she's just another person, she not perfect. You will find other women who are just as hot, beautiful, cool, fun, etc or even better. One woman should not be allowed to distort your reality ever, hell no one woman should not matter how any.

    I can relate to how you feel about rejection but just get over it. It's like that toy you lost when you where a kid, you where really sad at the beginning but now you have totally forgot about the toy as a whole and you would think nothing of it. Apply this logic to women, you will feel slightly down when rejection happens but you will get over it and you will continue later on but why feel down in the first place when you know you will get over it? Just go out and throw yourself in, what's the worse that can happen?
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