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Thread: N-Closed on bartender, never responded. I see her all the time

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    Default N-Closed on bartender, never responded. I see her all the time

    So my buddy and I decided to go to our local watering hole to sarge last night. I frequent the establishment every other week and we have the same bartender most of the time; redhead HB8. After striking out there, we left to go to a club. Turns out that the bartender shows up at the club we're at and I open her and her group of friends. I cut her off and have her alone and do some DHV with palm reading. She was giving me IOI's left and right so I N-CLosed and had to leave. I ended up texting her the next day with a flirty message but she never responded and now I get to see her at the local bar again tonight. Thinking of ignoring her or negging her. What should i do?

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    Default Re: N-Closed on bartender, never responded. I see her all the time

    If you really want to, talk with her and be playful as if everything was fine (and it probably is). Just don't reject yourself based on an assumption of why she ignored a text. Women do this all the time. Who knows, maybe your text needed to spark more emotions, try again later.

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    Default Re: N-Closed on bartender, never responded. I see her all the time

    Bartenders and waitresses are notoriously flirty for better tips. I realize you got her # outside of her work, but you never know. I would just ignore the hell out of her, and make her chase you. If she didn't respond, she was either busy, or just wants you to chase her.

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    Default Re: N-Closed on bartender, never responded. I see her all the time

    Sounds like everything was great until you text her, and I'm pretty sure I know why. You sent a flirty text... the day after. The vibe was gone from the night before. Different day = different vibe.

    Something else to keep in mind is that while she's at work,she's a hired gun. It doesn't matter that you've picked her up outside of her workplace, when she's there, she's working... in this case, for tips.
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