So i've been seeing this one girl for a couple of weeks; During that time we've been hanging out frequently, I.E. going to dinner, going downtown, etc. We've also been making out somewhat often and she says i'm a good kisser. After the first week, since we're in college, I tried to initiate sex during a makeout session, but she shot me down saying it was too soon. I played it really cool though, and acted like it didnt phase me at all. At that point, since it was late, I simply said alright, well i'd better get some sleep for my 7am class. So i left, but she kissed me heading out the door. I waited another week before trying again in order to avoid seeming desperate, even though I am =/. She doesn't know I'm a virgin and I don't plan on telling her. The second time, she still was not interested in having sex, or doing anything with my penis in general. I see so many people who hook up for one night stands at parties, and I'm just scratching my head. If she won't have sex with me, I feel like she's not actually that interested in me, but every single girl that has been remotely interested in me has done something similar.
I'm tired of this bs. College is supposed to be "easy" sex, and yet i've failed every time with every girl. Making out is ok I guess, but constant blue balls is pretty frustrating. What the hell is wrong with me?