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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Me and wingman, opened, chatted 2 girls, switched bars, payed drinks, danced with the girls, kinoed them heavily, at some point brought them home, had more drinks, kino even more. My girl I was touching her a lot and she didnt seem to mind at all. The girls stayed with us till 5:30am at our place listening to music and having drinks. But for some reason k close failed with both of us. What did we do wrong?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    Are there differences between boxers and boxer briefs other than that boxer briefs wont bunch up under clothes?
    yep. Circulation. You don't get any with boxer briefs. Personally, I like a little air flow, but I do hate the bunching and how the kind of flare out when you take your pants off. That's why I wear slim fit boxers. That's where it's at.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Dave-o View Post
    After a good first couple of dates, and a third having been agreed which was to be at her's, she has suddenly gone quiet, not messaging me at all since the second date. What do I do next? I have messaged her twice. The first message that I sent her asked how she was, we'd been out for drinks. The second message was sent hours later and was a simple comment.

    As far as I knew, things were progressing well and she admitted to liking me on the second date.... so, why has she suddenly adopted the silent treatment?

    Who knows. It may be the situation. Get in touch with her every 3 days or so. If she doesn't respond after a week or two, move on. sh1t happens
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny-ist-ein-Depp View Post
    Me and wingman, opened, chatted 2 girls, switched bars, payed drinks, danced with the girls, kinoed them heavily, at some point brought them home, had more drinks, kino even more. My girl I was touching her a lot and she didnt seem to mind at all. The girls stayed with us till 5:30am at our place listening to music and having drinks. But for some reason k close failed with both of us. What did we do wrong?
    Hell if I know. I'm not psychic. I don't know what you did or didn't do. You'd have to give me a lot more info for me to answer that.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Are aviator sunglasses a must own accessory? Is it good to own wayfarers also?
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Everyone needs a cool pair of sunglasses. Style's a personal choice. Leather jacket's are advised.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Johnny-ist-ein-Depp View Post
    Me and wingman, opened, chatted 2 girls, switched bars, payed drinks, danced with the girls, kinoed them heavily, at some point brought them home, had more drinks, kino even more. My girl I was touching her a lot and she didnt seem to mind at all. The girls stayed with us till 5:30am at our place listening to music and having drinks. But for some reason k close failed with both of us. What did we do wrong?
    2 things:

    1. You paid for their drinks;
    2. You knew her for quite a while already at 5:30 - should've K-closed earlier;

    Possible number 3: The way you tried to k-close.



    Getting you what you want, Bandit . I scratch your back, you scratch mine?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    bandit!

    been chatting to a HB8 for a few months after kiss/number closing. we've met once since (about a month back) and had fun, she came back to mine and we cuddled up but didnt kiss cause she was ill. We havent met since though cause shes usually at home instead of uni

    She makes effort to chat and flirt but when i ask to meet.. granted her excuses are valid but she doesnt offer alternatives or seem overly fussed and moves conversation on. how can i push harder/spell it out without sounding keen? cant really be bothered anymore just texting.

    ta

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Yo' Bandit, you got skills and you might rememba' my arse.

    Gimme your take on Do's and Don't's with girls, GO!
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Sorry for the very big post but it's a very big problem!!!!!!!!

    Hi


    Got a bit of a problem I need help with that I really cant seem to get past. I'm 28 (look younger) and been into Pick Up now for about 8 months and have read a lot of material and practised a fair bit too. But I think I have a problem that a lot of aspiring pua's must have.


    Quick bit of of background. I did reasonably well with girls before I knew about the community. I'm 6ft tall, over 12 stone and fairly muscular and I'm told that I'm a good looking guy. Second reason I did ok was I kind of already had a natural pua personality by Prizing, teasing, not showing too much interest etc before I knew the terms. Wouldn't have said I was a natural but better than most.


    So if we went on a night out and there was girls in our group I wouldn't have a problem getting with one of them. Or I have never had a problem getting girls at work attracted to me. Since I now know the terms and reasons I understand now that this was because I had chance to DHV and get to the hook point. But on the cold approach in night game I really struggle to get to that hook point. I know that I am progressing well by accentuating the parts of my personality we know girls are attracted to I can't seem to improve here at all. On some occasions when I do get with a girl, I know this is more because of my looks than anything else and sometimes before I have even say much!


    I know to subtly DHV by talking about girls in your life and showing pre-selection etc but not in a bragging way, while showing non-neediness and have a outcome independence (all the basics)


    I generally try to say indirect openers (I feel these are congruent to my personality) and some opinion ones and have a good selection, saying them confidently, good body language, don't show too much interest etc and feel I do all the basics correctly but I cant seem to transition from opener to DHV very well and get to that hook point. This is despite a lot of approaches.


    This seems by far the hardest part of pick up so I was wondering if there were any lines, tips etc to help me display value quickly and get to that hook point?


    (Know it's a long question but though it best you know the details)
    Thanks a lot
    An inconsistent PUA!!!


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