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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I'll get to all of you in a bit. Right now the fucks I give are minimal, and I need to get some more so I can give them to you.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    TIme sensitive i will be potentially seeing her in 2 hours!!!


    Hello


    There is this girl from school that was attracted to me from day one, i teased her and she loved it. We started to talk on the phone for hours at a time, talking about childhood memories, movies, travels, pretty much everything (excluding her and my past love life). We were working as group in a project with her friend and another girl, and i got into an altercation with her friend that resulted in mass insults back and forth and me calling her(the girl i like) out for pretending to be objective, as she stated in an earlier email (this was happening in a huge email chain with all members present), and told her that we are friends no more..

    Its been a whole month we are in the same class together, i flirt with alot of the girls and the class sees my as a fun interesting person. Ever since this, i have changed the way i walk ,talk , interact, tell stories etc. I believe she still has an itch for me, because she texted me "???" and said "nvm wrong person"

    I messaged her the other day saying "just watched the new GI joe movie, reminded me of you" she replied by saying "interesting?" i said "i won't be able to look at you the same way", she replied "okay weirdo.. lol". I then messaged her last night asking her when her economics final(we take the same class at different times) was, seeing it as a good opportunity to rekindle flames.

    She then exploded, saying "are we talking??" "are we friends again?, because last time i checked we weren't" . I replied " Lol.. I'm tired of these games lets be cool". She then went off on a huge out burst "telling me that i should apologize for the sh1t i pulled and that after that she will think about being "cool", and that we both are not in dire need of friends and would survive without a new friend, and unless i wanted to be freaking genuine that i shouldn't bother. I replied by saying "lets go for some tea(i know she prefers it over coffee), I'm going to be at school studying on my econ", she replied by saying "not in school till 5", i said "ill probably still be there msg me when you get in." , (No reply from her)

    Sorry for that long passage, if she shows up and messaged me around 5, i will be meeting her. I am expecting the interaction to go sour, she having an outburst and me having one too. I feel like if i apologize i will be giving her all the power and that she will never respect me or be attracted me more than a friend. During this time away, i have been really into Self Improvement, dressing better being more confident , talking to a lot of girl, she might have noticed this patter change.

    What do you think i should do? how can i use that emotion of "anger" and change it into "love" ,what are things i can do during the interaction today that will turn the tides into my favour? I thank you in advance, i could use any of your knowledge today. Please do reply

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Please read my post, i have to meet htis girl in 2 hours!! NEED HELP URGENTLY

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I am still new to the PUA community but if it were me i would do this... If she asks about or starts talking about what happened between you two tell her that you don't live in the past. Today is a new day and then move the convo on. If she says something about how much you have changed then tell her that those who quit striving to be a better person and stop improving themselves are not living life. Tell her that you did not like how you were so you changed and are much happier about it. And then move the convo on. I would not give much detail to it. Try not to drag either of these topics out. Get her to focus on something else and you should do fine. Either she will see you for the person you have become and like it or she will dwell on the past and that is not a person you would want a relationship with to begin with so either way its a good thing. You can figure out if she is worth trying to get to know on a closer level or you can cut your ties and move on. Hope that helps.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by cooljay88 View Post
    TIme sensitive i will be potentially seeing her in 2 hours!!!


    Hello


    There is this girl from school that was attracted to me from day one, i teased her and she loved it. We started to talk on the phone for hours at a time, talking about childhood memories, movies, travels, pretty much everything (excluding her and my past love life). We were working as group in a project with her friend and another girl, and i got into an altercation with her friend that resulted in mass insults back and forth and me calling her(the girl i like) out for pretending to be objective, as she stated in an earlier email (this was happening in a huge email chain with all members present), and told her that we are friends no more..

    Its been a whole month we are in the same class together, i flirt with alot of the girls and the class sees my as a fun interesting person. Ever since this, i have changed the way i walk ,talk , interact, tell stories etc. I believe she still has an itch for me, because she texted me "???" and said "nvm wrong person"

    I messaged her the other day saying "just watched the new GI joe movie, reminded me of you" she replied by saying "interesting?" i said "i won't be able to look at you the same way", she replied "okay weirdo.. lol". I then messaged her last night asking her when her economics final(we take the same class at different times) was, seeing it as a good opportunity to rekindle flames.

    She then exploded, saying "are we talking??" "are we friends again?, because last time i checked we weren't" . I replied " Lol.. I'm tired of these games lets be cool". She then went off on a huge out burst "telling me that i should apologize for the sh1t i pulled and that after that she will think about being "cool", and that we both are not in dire need of friends and would survive without a new friend, and unless i wanted to be freaking genuine that i shouldn't bother. I replied by saying "lets go for some tea(i know she prefers it over coffee), I'm going to be at school studying on my econ", she replied by saying "not in school till 5", i said "ill probably still be there msg me when you get in." , (No reply from her)

    Sorry for that long passage, if she shows up and messaged me around 5, i will be meeting her. I am expecting the interaction to go sour, she having an outburst and me having one too. I feel like if i apologize i will be giving her all the power and that she will never respect me or be attracted me more than a friend. During this time away, i have been really into Self Improvement, dressing better being more confident , talking to a lot of girl, she might have noticed this patter change.

    What do you think i should do? how can i use that emotion of "anger" and change it into "love" ,what are things i can do during the interaction today that will turn the tides into my favour? I thank you in advance, i could use any of your knowledge today. Please do reply
    What most guys forget is that beyond all this Alpha Male AMOG born leader mental mumbo jumbo is something deeper. In order to get a woman, even a young woman, you've got to be a man. And being a man means that when you really fuck up, you've got to admit it. You lost your cool, you said some things you shouldn't have, and now you just need to apologize and move on. It doesn't make you weak to admit when you're wrong. Pussies make excuses and shift blame. Men take responsibility.

    When you see her, be excited to see her. Be sincere about your apology, don't lie about anything. Admit that you screwed up and don't try to play it off like it's not your fault. Don't necessarily try to rush through it, but as soon as she apologizes move off the subject. Try and get back to where you two used to be. Do all the stuff you guys used to do/talk about.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    If any of you still want me to answer your questions, you can ask them again. If not, I'm taking new questions.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Why would a girl you haven't talked to for two weeks text you asking if you were going to be at a friends game night hours before the group got together? Why would this same girl text you when she arrived saying "look at my park job lol", nobody else got that text but me.

    I texted her Monday last week, but she didn't text me back until Thursday, saying she forgot to text me back while still playing along with Monday's text?

    Does this mean anything, or am I looking for something that isn't really there?

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    She's probably got a little thing for you, and it looks like she's playing games with you. Learn how to Push/Pull and you can flip it around on her. When it comes to IOIs like this my motto is "always assume a girl is into you".
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    So I was texting this girl last night, it was like this:

    Me: Did somebody ask for cool beans? *insert pic of canned beans in the freezer section at the grocery store* (its an inside joke between us)

    Her: Haha since when are those in the freezer?!

    Me: Lol I put them there so they could be "cool". Walmart still has them there too."

    Her: "o0o0o"

    Me: "Just don't rat me out to Walmart, I can't afford to get kicked out of another one haha"

    Her: "Pssht, you did not! Sorry my phone died while I was in school." (She has night classes, this response was from 2.AM)

    So I texted her today around 3.PM.

    Me: "Sorry I was getting some beauty sleep. But now I'm tan, I'm rested and I'm ready to give this old town a wedgie again! lol"

    Her: Haha who are you Spongebob?"

    I haven't responed to it yet, cause well I'm stumped. Help a brother out yo.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I don't see a problem. Just invite her over to your pineapple or something like that.
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