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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Just giving you a hard time
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Bandit how do I get skillz at the game?

    Sometimes I get a good flow going and it seems to go natural as f?&%

    Other times I literally can't force myself to make even one approach and leave

    I am working on soloing because other people cant always go out.

    Thanks
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    NEED some advice - how to ensure a day 2? Strategy for next texts?
    Background:
    Met girl (~9) at a friends party…. Connected and chatted, # closed, texted:
    Me: Good meeting you at ___ party – maybe I’ll see you around in San Fran or <someplace else> sometime – if you’re lucky!
    Within 20 minutes
    Her: Lol!
    Her: Yeah!
    Later that evening
    Me: Hey! You should swing by and say hi! We are at a party at Marquee!
    A few hours later
    Her: I am eating with friends
    Her: next time loh

    Two days later:
    Me: …did you leave a pink scarf at Mark’s bday? Launching a new fashion bracelet, and wanted to get an opinion. (she’s a fashion major)
    Within 45 minutes
    Her: No, really!? The new brand!? That’s interesting!
    Her: show me the information
    Me: Sends photos of pieces in production
    Her: Very nice
    Me: All silver and gold, the texture is what I think people like about it
    Me: you should see them in person sometime
    Her: Sure
    Her: Who is the designer
    Me: It’s a friend named Wendy W., we are partnering with an artist to market it, it’s pretty pricey, the details on the pieces is what people say they love
    Me: Have you heard of her?
    Her: Sorry
    Her: Don’t know
    Her: Pure silver n gold?
    Me: There are three collections and most are pure , the ones I showed you are all so
    Me: What’s special is the meaning behind each piece
    Her: Yeah

    ** WHAT NEXT??? I'm a newbie!! Help!!!

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Bandit, how do you feel about all these oneitis scenarios. Why do you answer every question that people ask about their first date or first number close instead of telling them that if they date more girls then the problems will go away. Its hard to help people who haven't taken action. And I dont feel like its good to help them with their first girls, that teaches them to place importance on any one girl.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Devil_dog View Post
    Bandit, how do you feel about all these oneitis scenarios. Why do you answer every question that people ask about their first date or first number close instead of telling them that if they date more girls then the problems will go away. Its hard to help people who haven't taken action. And I dont feel like its good to help them with their first girls, that teaches them to place importance on any one girl.
    I've never sugarcoated it for anyone. I've been blunter than most of the other experts here. I tell guys straight up that they're most likely not going to get the girls they want right off the bat. My strategy for these guys is to just go balls to the wall and tell the girl how they feel. Chances are it won't work, but it's better than filling their heads with a bunch of PUA techniques they won't get in time to make them work.

    As for oneitis, I don't think it's that big of a deal. If we continue to demonize oneitis we're just going to end up with a bunch of guys who have learned that it's a terrible thing to single their aim on one girl. Which is completely irresponsible. I met my girlfriend with pickup, I'm going to meet more girlfriends with pickup, I'm going to meet my wife with pickup. I'm not afraid of oneitis. I'm looking forward to it. I'd hate to do this sh!t for the rest of my life. That sounds terrible.

    The reason we warn so many guys about oneitis is because that's the issue most guys have right off the bat. It's the same with AA. It's not the hardest or most important part of pickup, but it get's talked about the most cause that's the problem most people have when they get started and they ask a sh!t-ton of questions about it. The problem with oneitis isn't that it makes you focus on one girl. It's that for most guys, especially newbies, get obsessed with one girl and it fucks them up mightily. But eventually it'll get to the point where it'll motivate you to even greater levels of pickup. And that's a good thing.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Chances are it won't work, but it's better than filling their heads with a bunch of PUA techniques they won't get in time to make them work.
    i think this is the most important point that no one talks about, it's nearly impossible to learn pua in a few days

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hi!
    So, I saw this girl a few days ago, she smiled at me and gave me some "signals" that I like her without even talking(I tough that I was just wondering so I calmed down myself). But I didn't had the courage to go and talk, when I tried to go and talk, she saw me and turned away, so I didn't even tried. A friend of mine saw everything and told me that in the moment she turned away, she looked over her shoulder and when she noticed I was the person behind her, she smiled. After that I decided to go and talk to her, and I did it with a lot of confidence!, she was just smiling and laughing all the time, and she was looking me directly to the eyes during all the conversation until I asked if she had a boyfriend, she thought a little bit and said "yes" but she was very attentive looking how I react. I just erase my smile, and everything just turned very awkward .In that moment his mother came for her and she had to leave.

    What Should I do now?

    Pd: I didn't know anything about this forum since yesterday.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Kcrist27 View Post
    Hi!
    So, I saw this girl a few days ago, she smiled at me and gave me some "signals" that I like her without even talking(I tough that I was just wondering so I calmed down myself). But I didn't had the courage to go and talk, when I tried to go and talk, she saw me and turned away, so I didn't even tried. A friend of mine saw everything and told me that in the moment she turned away, she looked over her shoulder and when she noticed I was the person behind her, she smiled. After that I decided to go and talk to her, and I did it with a lot of confidence!, she was just smiling and laughing all the time, and she was looking me directly to the eyes during all the conversation until I asked if she had a boyfriend, she thought a little bit and said "yes" but she was very attentive looking how I react. I just erase my smile, and everything just turned very awkward .In that moment his mother came for her and she had to leave.

    What Should I do now?

    Pd: I didn't know anything about this forum since yesterday.
    First off I'm going to ask where you're from. Because if you're from Croatia or France or Brazil or any other of the many countries that don't speak English, then I will forgive you your horrible grammar. I'm sure I sound like shit to Spanish speakers too. But if you're from the US or Ireland or Australia or the UK, you have no excuse and rocks should be thrown at you.

    To answer your question, you always want to play it cool when girls test you, and that's what this was. I'm not saying she doesn't have a girlfriend, just that she was testing your response. And you failed. Start reading some articles and threads about inner game. That will help a great deal. And the next time you see her, pretend nothing happened.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Bandit I fixed that problem about the cash I carry at work. It was rather simple I got a new job working elsewhere but my last day I went to bank and had them swap out five c-notes for a pile of tens just to prove my point I can do what the eff I want

    Even on my last day I was Narced and I went to service manager's office he asked I responded what does it matter to anyone else here what I do with my money nd how I carry it? He only responded this time "fair enough I see your point" next day delivered my two week notice, me and general manager that never got along got into a polite fight.he said this will suffice you can go now, you services are no longer needed here. I just responded thanks I really want to hug you, you are the best.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    What should I do when my bestfriend/wingman's roommate comes to the bar with us and antiwingman's???

    For example: I'll go and start talking with a girl flirting, holding her hand and stuff. His roommate will literally come between me and the girl, point at the girl and look at me and go "whos this", Ill say this is blah blah.. and he will literally try and take her from me... He's no where smooth or what the avg person would call attractive.. I've told him on numerous occasions to quit this sh1t but it's not clicking in.. Any advise??

    Side Note: Ditching him doesnt work.. he still follows us.
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