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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Introduce him and then pass him off as a nice guy, he will call you all the time, text you throughout the day asking how you are, he is very caring like that, but you are a bad boy so see ya later.... If played right she will ditch him and find you. Best part you already qualified if she finds you she now needs to qualify. You are in that instance in control. She now has to win you.


    Summary pass him off as a "nice guy"( needy as hell) and say you two should get to know each other better I am a bad boy ( adventurous, mysterious ....)

    Um which one do you think she wants?

    Correct me if I am wrong bandit
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Pyroto View Post
    What should I do when my bestfriend/wingman's roommate comes to the bar with us and antiwingman's???

    For example: I'll go and start talking with a girl flirting, holding her hand and stuff. His roommate will literally come between me and the girl, point at the girl and look at me and go "whos this", Ill say this is blah blah.. and he will literally try and take her from me... He's no where smooth or what the avg person would call attractive.. I've told him on numerous occasions to quit this sh1t but it's not clicking in.. Any advise??

    Side Note: Ditching him doesnt work.. he still follows us.
    Make a joke of it. If you've built up enough attraction with the girl and show confidence you can use this to your advantage. I read somewhere about a technique where you say something along the lines of "Oh, thank God, you're here. This girl is crazy. Please take her off my hands for me. I just can't deal with her. She's too cruel and she hurts my feelings." You want to say it as jokingly as you can, turn up the charm to 11, wink at her while you do it. She'll come back to you eventually, she may even come back to you right away. "No way, pal. You're stuck with me." Either way, you're totally disarming him.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by hometownextra View Post
    Introduce him and then pass him off as a nice guy, he will call you all the time, text you throughout the day asking how you are, he is very caring like that, but you are a bad boy so see ya later.... If played right she will ditch him and find you. Best part you already qualified if she finds you she now needs to qualify. You are in that instance in control. She now has to win you.


    Summary pass him off as a "nice guy"( needy as hell) and say you two should get to know each other better I am a bad boy ( adventurous, mysterious ....)

    Um which one do you think she wants?

    Correct me if I am wrong bandit
    You've got the right idea but you need polishing. You need to play up the two personalities more. You can't come off as giving an honest-to-God endorsement of the guy. There's got to be and ulterior motive there, some game you're playing that they only get a glimpse at.
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    Exclamation Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    So I was texting this girl last night, and asked her if she was down for hitting up a local restaurant for some trivia. Basically confirmed the meet up for 9:30 tonight.

    Sometime in the middle of the night, she sent a text asking who else was going, to which I responded this morning with "Well my grandmas gonna come, she wants to hang out too lol." IMO its fairly obvious I was joking, but I haven't heard from her all day.

    Obviously her asking who else was coming and her not responding to my text this morning is probably bad. My question is how do I confirm if we're still on for the night without coming off as needy?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bandit, help a brother out! I asked this good looking chick to dance at senior prom as we were walking on to the dance floor everyone stops dancing because some shitty song comes on. So i was like why isn't anyone dancing you wanna get a drink..? So we get drinks, and while we were doing that I see all her friends laughing at her in a good way. What I mean by that is they were laughing like ooohoh thataaah girll you know..? We go out to dance when the next song comes on. We danced for a few songs and we both were havin fun but eventually she said she was going to the bathroom and I didn't see her the rest of the night. This girls pretty dam good looking and shes in maybe one of my classes and T've talked to her a few times. I've only been able to make small conversation when I talk to her though. I joke around with her compliment her etc.. So tell me what should I do make this girl mine..? Any advice would be very appreciated.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    What is the best way to approach a Facebook like one stated here just wondering for my info?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by cakebake32 View Post
    Hey Bandit, help a brother out! I asked this good looking chick to dance at senior prom as we were walking on to the dance floor everyone stops dancing because some sh1tty song comes on. So i was like why isn't anyone dancing you wanna get a drink..? So we get drinks, and while we were doing that I see all her friends laughing at her in a good way. What I mean by that is they were laughing like ooohoh thataaah girll you know..? We go out to dance when the next song comes on. We danced for a few songs and we both were havin fun but eventually she said she was going to the bathroom and I didn't see her the rest of the night. This girls pretty dam good looking and shes in maybe one of my classes and T've talked to her a few times. I've only been able to make small conversation when I talk to her though. I joke around with her compliment her etc.. So tell me what should I do make this girl mine..? Any advice would be very appreciated.
    You're asking me to explain the entirety of game to you in one post. I'm good, damn good, but even I can't do that. Have you read any material? Looked at any of the articles on this site? Have you even tried first?

    Come back when you have a more specific question.
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    Background:

    Met this HB 8 or so at the beach not this past sunday, but the sunday before.

    Told her I had to go after a VERY short conversation. She gave me her number and facebook since it costs a lot to text. Been writing to her every now and then since and we were supposed to meet for a nice little evening tonight on the boardwalk.

    When I told her I couldn't make it (something important came up in the morning) and would then be out of town until Saturday night, when I could see her next she said "awww :/". I told her "you'll be seeing me soon " and she wrote a smile back.

    She's from Quebec, with first language as French. She doesn't have many friends down here, if any at all.

    Question:

    Basically I feel like I built up attraction great. Only thing is, the meet tonight I felt was what everything was geared towards. I realized I hit a sort of roadbump I need to swerve around to get back on track.

    What do you think I can do to keep the attraction there for the next few days until our next meet?

    Was thinking of telling her in the morning, "Just because I'm going away for a few days, doesn't mean I don't expect a few exciting texts, and cute, professional pictures in the mean time "

    ^ Because she models and we exchanged fun pictures a few days ago. I accused hers of being very professional when it was just a silly picture.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    You the man!! bro!!! I've learned a lot lurking this thread forever

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Ok, so what is the best way to respond to a girl when she says she is dealing with girl drama with her friends. This is a new girl i just met, and she told me "My friend is being a b****, girl issues lol." What's the best way to turn this into a comfort or attraction builder?


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