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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Whether you purposely haven't responded to me yet or just been too busy, thanks! (sincerely)

    It allowed me to think on my feet and learn from results.

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    Bindle- I never try to engage negative topics. I have my own problems, everyone does and I'm not her bf, I don't have to deal with those. In similar situations I turn it into a joke like, "Uh oh, I hope that's not a warning..." or just change the subject to something better "Don't worry, you guys will make up over a bowl of nutella and an episode of glee, anything exciting coming up this week?"

    Bandit's the pro though so wait on him if you can. (Just a second opinion since I was posting here again anyways.)

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    what is somethings you did to boost your confidence about talking to random girls on campus? or just anywhere?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    what is somethings you did to boost your confidence about talking to random girls on campus? or just anywhere?
    I've always been fascinated by the idea that everyone has a different story, a different way of looking at things. Getting to know people's like an adventure in and of itself. I love that. So that was a good bit of motivation right there.

    If I'm honest, I'd gotten to the point where I was tired of the way things were. I wanted to change things. I wanted to stop seeing unattainable girls. I wanted to start seeing possibilities. And that's exactly what I did.

    My advice. Think about what made you want to come to this place at all. What motivated you to learn PickUp? Focus on that. Keep it fresh in your mind. And use it to give you strength. Repeat it like a montra if you have to.

    Start by just talking to anyone and everyone. Eventually it'll feel second nature. And you'll just gravitate to girls you're attracted to.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    So I gave up on facebook years ago, too much headache. When I've been approaching girls, one of the most common things they ask is "do you have a facebook?"

    Ive always been kind of truthful and say too many nosey people, too much drama, or not my style, but get mixed results with that. Sounds too insulting when they have one ( and I know girls are nosey ).

    So aside from creating a facebook, ( new to game still might create one in the future for networking and pre-selection ) how do I play it off without sounding insulting or anti-social?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by MauiGame View Post
    So I gave up on facebook years ago, too much headache. When I've been approaching girls, one of the most common things they ask is "do you have a facebook?"

    Ive always been kind of truthful and say too many nosey people, too much drama, or not my style, but get mixed results with that. Sounds too insulting when they have one ( and I know girls are nosey ).

    So aside from creating a facebook, ( new to game still might create one in the future for networking and pre-selection ) how do I play it off without sounding insulting or anti-social?
    Make it a joke or something. Say you had to delete it to lose a crazy ex, or the witness protection program won't let you have one any more. Emphasize the fact that they'll have to give you their number instead. Add in a wink or something and stay cocky funny and you'll be golden.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I'm opening this thread back up for questions.

    So bring me your frustrated, your lonely. I will berate them into perfection through smart-ass wisdom.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bandit, first-time poster with a quick question.

    I've been texting a girl using a very sexual frame at times (both implied and overt - I've basically told her she's going to 'get it' etc).

    I've told her I want to see her at a specific date in the near future when I'm out and she said it'd be good to see me (compliance? I decided the date - she just accepted)

    With kino and being confident and congruent, is it 'on' - in the sense that she's agreed to meet up after I've been bluntly sexual with my intentions?

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I have heard some people say that the best time to attract a girl is when you first meet her. The longer you go, the harder it is to get her. For instance, if there's a girl that regularly comes into my store, and I talk to her, then talk to her the next time she comes in, and then decide to try and create attraction/get her number the third time she comes in, this theory would imply that doing so would be very difficult, or significantly harder than it would be if I tried to flirt with her the first time we met.

    Do you agree or disagree with this?

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    Smile Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    hey bandit, i just met someone on facebook and she was keen for me to add her. i added her, shes cute but i dont know what to say, i opened the convo with hey your name must be **** according to facebook **** and she said haha hey but idk what to say after that, the convo just ends and it doesnt go far. so basically what i am asking u is if u could help me to talk to women on facebook like tips on how to keep the convo going and how to get them intetersted! thanks

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bndit, hope you could help me :

    I'm pretty good at gaming girls and making friends with them thanks to the PUA principles, but I have a hard times making guy friends. I think it's because I know what girls expect from a man in term off value and all that but I'm clueless when I'm talking to guys and don't know where to take the convo, could you help ?


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