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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bandit,

    You posted a reply talking about a personal long distance relationship on my first thread. So I'm hoping you can help me out again.

    I've got a really great challenge for you I posted a second thread under ask the expert and it's called "Celebrity Seduction, Rapport, Etc...". Looking back the title doesn't really explain the situation as good as I hoped, so to understand it head over to the thread and check it out if you'd like.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    So from my last post this HB8 is still kinda Elusive but got easier to catch (at least I think). Now literally every day or every second day she would snapchat me and say hey. But after a while (instantly or 2 hours) when I reply she just opens it but does not respond. What does this mean? Is she just testing me or else? Any good comments and thoughts are welcomed thx! (Usually its just a snap of half of her face and then a loose tank top at an angle)
    Ps.I know that I posted this before but I got no responses and advixe
    PSS.please msg me

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hi,

    I'm sorry. this is really irrelevant. but i really need to know it.
    Which stores are the most popular for online shopping in Philippines?
    I'm looking for fashion products in cheap rate. or may be a good discount or super offer might help.
    Please help if you or anybody have any idea about online shopping.

    Thank you.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I'm going to the lake with some friends tomorrow and this hb9 is gonna be there.. I really want to attract her but I'm nervous as f****!... I need to know what to do and fast she's 9 and I'm a 7 tops lol.. But that shouldn't matter right? Any help or advice!!?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    hey
    I have been in a new country for years now and haven't f-closed any locals yet. I only f-close people from my country. We speak same language but different accent. I N-close (only H6) but the dating scene bores me cos i always feel pressured to impress HB. Any comment would be gladly appreciated. btw i'm 22

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by MrTee View Post
    Hey Bandit, first-time poster with a quick question.

    I've been texting a girl using a very sexual frame at times (both implied and overt - I've basically told her she's going to 'get it' etc).

    I've told her I want to see her at a specific date in the near future when I'm out and she said it'd be good to see me (compliance? I decided the date - she just accepted)

    With kino and being confident and congruent, is it 'on' - in the sense that she's agreed to meet up after I've been bluntly sexual with my intentions?

    Cheers!
    It is most definitely on, unless you've completely made up half your post. And you wouldn't lie to me. We're, like, tight and junk.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Carter21 View Post
    I have heard some people say that the best time to attract a girl is when you first meet her. The longer you go, the harder it is to get her. For instance, if there's a girl that regularly comes into my store, and I talk to her, then talk to her the next time she comes in, and then decide to try and create attraction/get her number the third time she comes in, this theory would imply that doing so would be very difficult, or significantly harder than it would be if I tried to flirt with her the first time we met.

    Do you agree or disagree with this?
    I agree to an extent. It's all about frames. People create a certain expectation about the people they meet. The more they interact with that person, the more their frame dials in. It becomes more specific, more exact. It moves less and less with each interaction, as if they're fine tuning it. And when it gets to that point, it's very hard to make big changes to the way people see you. That's why the friend zone is such a bitch. But it takes a lot of interactions to get to that point.

    Still, it's always good to start off on the right foot. You want to make a first impression that's going to be consistent with the way you are. And it never hurts to establish that there is attraction between you two right off the bat.

    What you should be more worried about is that she'll just see you as a cashier and not a guy that's interested in her. You need to get her to see you outside of the confines of your job. That's where you should put your focus.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    So last night the girl that I have been dating for 2 months had sex again (for like the 20th+ time). She was all over me before and during sex. She likes to be quick about it and loves it when I let off my load. Our sex only lasts like 7-10 mins cause she always tells me WHEN to cum for her. Usually I try to wait a little bit longer when she tells me, but I'll be honest I ejaculate pretty easily (its so hard with her cause she is like an HB8 and is extremely good in bed), but last night I went right away, and our sex only lasted a few minutes... Afterwards, she was being all WEIRD, didn't really want to kiss or cuddle much and was being short and sassy. WTF just happened?? She was telling me all day yesterday that she couldn't wait to see me and all but after last night I feel like I got mind farked!

    I'll be honest, I could not sleep at all last night because I was wondering what the hell was wrong, but I never brought it up to talk about it cause I know girls don't really like talking about stuff, so I suffered all night and waited pretty much until she got up... Ding Ding Ding! She was completely fine when she got up, all flirty again, touchy and extremely horny... I didn't know if to punish her and not have sex again, or just go with the flow, but again, she is very good at turning me on, so what the heck we went at it again. This time, afterwards, she was all cuddly and intimate and everything seemed back to normal.... WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?!

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I've got one for you! Little long, but please give it a read though.

    I was working on a theater show for a few months and this one girl was co-starring with me. Rehearsals for the show lasted about three months on and off but I never had much of chance to talk with her at practice. I had known her previously, but I also know she HAS a bf. She is the sort of girl who seems quality and her facebook photos make her seem like the good girl. A couple days before our last show, some of us went to check out a different show and she sat beside me. We were all drinking and I had to use the washroom 20 mins before the show ended. As I came back, she appears beside me (I think she was using the washroom, too). We sat at the back of the theater and she starts stroking my arm, and tries to grab my hand. I don't let her until after several minutes of trying. I was simply enjoying what was going on. The show ends, we all leave for home. She texted saying 'Sorry, I was getting so flirty. Been hard to hold back." I liked that last bit there.

    A couple days later, we had our last show. I got to the venue early, and when I saw her arriving I kind of wanted to freeze her out just because. So, I noticed a friend I "hadn't seen in a while", I got a call (which was fluke), I set up the props, I had an "important conversation" with the director. Sure enough, she still was flirty. After the show, she and I and a couple others went for drinks. Later, we switch tables and I am positioned further away from her making it hard to talk to her. I texted a woman "pawn" of mine and told her to meet me there. I go outside for about 40 minutes texting the girl I'm into not to leave to the next venue without me. She started texting asking where I was and stuff. But I didn't reply. I met up with this "pawn" and went back to the bar. My pawn sits next to me and we start chatting and getting giggly and I put my hand on her leg. The whole jealousy plot line worked I think because I took a trip to the washroom, and the girl I'm into texts asking "is that your ex?" and jokingly/flirtingly said to me later "you were feeling up her legs!" I came back to the table and this girl is giving me these flirty looks, clearly into me, but I always turned my attention back to my "pawn" friend. The pawn leaves, and so now that the jealousy seed has been planted, we move onto the next venue. A house party. I'm feeling pretty good by this point.

    At the house party, I made sure to talk to all these different, interesting people who I'm getting amazingly useful information from. So, again, I didn't really talk with her much, even though there was roughly 20 other very cool guys in the house, and about 5 women. But as the party winded down, she drove me home and asked if I could show her my place. Haha. So, she comes in, and I save my room for last. As soon as she goes in my room, she flings herself onto my bed. For the next 13 hours we are fucking, laughing, telling stories, having a fantastic time. If the bf ever came up, she'd say, "let's not think about that". She had nothing but good things to say about the situation and how much fun it was. And she was nothing but amazing and cute herself, wrapped up in my sheet while eating breakfast on my deck. An image I'll never forget.

    It's been three days since she left my place. I know women can be feel pretty vulnerable after having sex with a new guy, but I bet even more so if you cheated on your long term guy. I texted her later that night simply saying "Hope the show was good. What an ending to a stellar Fringe year. Stay classy. Oh, you owe me drinks". She replied, "I owe you one drink! hahahaha. You just miss me already!" I replied "that's wishful thinkin' if I ever saw it. Have a good night, Hope". Her bf had taken her to see another show that night and did all these lovely things for her so here I am laughing my ass off, knowing she had literally just left my place.

    So, now the question is...what now? I want to fuck her more. It's been three days, and I haven't heard anything, but really, I'm not surprised. That's only three days. She is convinced that I'm going to get stuck on her like "other needy guys". But, that's not me.
    Any advice is appreciated!

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hi Bandit,

    I’ve been working abroad for a while now and there’s a girl here who was really into me several months ago. I kinda liked her too, but I didn’t make my move back then because she was leaving for her home country and I didn’t want to start a long distance relationship (bad experience on that, but whatever).
    Due to some circumstances, she’s back now and we’ve been very close friends since a few months (not in a romantic way though).

    A few weeks ago, she met this guy in a club and it took him just a few minutes to get her number and now they are texting and messaging each other constantly. I can’t stop thinking about her ever since, and I really wished I did approach her back then.
    It’s clear that she’s head over heels with this guy and that I completely messed up any chance I had, but I just wanted to know if there’s any way for me to get out of this awful friendzone.

    Thx!
    Last edited by passoabowl; 08-20-2013 at 11:35 AM. Reason: wanted to add something


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