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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Just a quicky. Do you live in Los Angeles, and can you help me find what I'm looking for in Los Angeles? It'll be funnnnn.
    Yours somewhat truly,
    Dick

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Alright, I don't feel like going through all the questions people asked me while I was gone. I simply don't care enough. If you want your questions answered, ask them again.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hello,

    This girl I've known for about a year and a half who's in university over a hour away from me has recently become single. I've really wanted to go out with her for several months but was forced to wait because she had a bf, but that's not the case anymore because of the perils of a long distance relationship. We're friends but not super close mostly have just texting a lot last couple months.

    You posted in my other thread saying that you made it 6 months with a girl long distance, now I know an hour and a half isn't too long distance but it's long enough so my question is, what are my options and how would you approach this situation? Should I ask her out asap when she's next down (which she pretty frequently comes down)? Is there anyway to improve my odds against the competition at the university? If we do get in a relationship what are some tips to make the september-april easier on the relationship?

    Thanks a load for your time mate!

    Cheers,

    Chris

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by That One Guy View Post
    Hello,

    This girl I've known for about a year and a half who's in university over a hour away from me has recently become single. I've really wanted to go out with her for several months but was forced to wait because she had a bf, but that's not the case anymore because of the perils of a long distance relationship. We're friends but not super close mostly have just texting a lot last couple months.

    You posted in my other thread saying that you made it 6 months with a girl long distance, now I know an hour and a half isn't too long distance but it's long enough so my question is, what are my options and how would you approach this situation? Should I ask her out asap when she's next down (which she pretty frequently comes down)? Is there anyway to improve my odds against the competition at the university? If we do get in a relationship what are some tips to make the september-april easier on the relationship?

    Thanks a load for your time mate!

    Cheers,

    Chris
    Damn, that's like 5 questions in one. You're a curious little bugger, aren't you?

    You're an hour and a half away, so I don't think going straight to dating would be a good idea. If she does come down as often as you say, be sure to get face time with her when she does. It doesn't have to be an official date, but it might as well be. Take her some place fun, keep her entertained, establish your value, and I think you'll be fine. When you're apart, be sure to stay in her mind. Call her, text her, Skype her, whatever. Don't be clingy, but be there. And make sure you keep a fun, flirty attitude.

    I can't tell you whether or not you should go long distance. That's a personal choice. I know personally it's not for me. It may be for you. If you want something casual, express that desire through your frame. If you want something more, be sure to push for it. But don't push too hard.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bandit,

    I had this girl that showed IOIs (even asked me out), but flaked everytime. I asked her out and she flaked again. I froze her out for flaking, and now she is cold to me. It doesn't help that her friend is saying negative things to her behind my back (cockblocking). I tried befriending the cockblock, but she is just a backstabber. What do you suggest I do?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bandit - Ok so there's this girl who goes to the same University as I do. She'll text me and even initiate the texting most of the time.

    However, every time I see her and she's with her girl friends, they burst out laughing and she bashes me like crazy. Like today I walked past her then she tells me straight to my face: "don't look at me like that" ahaha crazy I know.

    Should I keep going with this girl. I can't imagine having a decent convo with her since she "pushes" me constantly.

    I have NEVER encountered a girl like that. I know most women will throw in a few shit tests from time to time, but to this extreme? and in public? thats borderline psycho...

    I also feel like she doing some fucked up push pull on me. Pushing me in public then pulling me via texts...

    IM kinda on the fence here about what to do with her. Forget her or "chase" her?

    Thanks a bunch

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    ^ She's flirting with you. "Don't look at me like that" is just her flirting. Flirt back.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bandit! I got 3 questions...

    1. Please look at my post and help me out: http://www.puaforums.com/ask-expert/...tml#post107903

    2. I need help with college game, i know to build my social circle, make friends with everyone, socialize etc etc. But when it comes down to it i still dont get girls, and when i do i mess it up! Any tips, good readings?

    3. I need help with my college text game, what to text college girls, when to, etc. etc.

    Thanks!

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    Unhappy Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hello Bandit !
    well I have two big problems and I hope you'll help me.
    the first one : I'm studying with a girl I love for the second year and I love her deeply the problem is I didn't tell her because I was a cower so she friend-zoned me and even though I'm giving her too much importance and she knows that, sometimes she ignores me! I want to speak with her but I don't find any way, I say jokes, I ask her questions then make a statement but no results she usually responds with one or two words, she even made me think I'm not funny anymore ( when I see her laughing with some boys I just feel desperate) I feel that she's not that much interested and the worst thing is that I'm feeling that we're becoming more separated day by day. my best friend told me to let go but the problem is : I CAN'T!! I love her but I can't make any move.
    My second problem is that I wan't to become more social and have many friends and build good relations and become a badass but even though I read many books I just feel something missing I know the rules but I can't start playing.
    Thank you

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    alright here's a set i am in.
    she works in another company. she's the daughter of the owner. the company i work with asked them to build a warehouse for us.
    now, i already broke the whole texting barrier in business (instead of formal emails and phone calls).
    we had a couple of meetings and i managed to get a laugh from her (note she wasnt being courteous there coz we already bought their services). i dont know how to take it to the next level.

    it's quite tricky coz our interactions are absolutely professional. tips and advice appreciated.


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