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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Just invite her over to your place for drinks or to watch a movie. Act like you're just being friendly and start by re-initiating contact. Keep it low key, don't build too much attraction yet and just enjoy a nice night.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Can you talk us through an example of your last pick up or pass along your standard go to lines/ stories i.e Opener, hook, DHV, tease, C&F, Close etc

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I often stall during date conversations... I normally recover it ok but it has ruined one golden shot already.

    I prefer to keep it natural and not rely on routines too heavily but there are times when my mind goes blank and I just flat out panic. I had a 10 minute conversation about gardening... face-palm!

    So just wanted to ask, do you have any good routines or just decent conversation starters/ topics to use as a fall back?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by keeksy1984 View Post
    Can you talk us through an example of your last pick up or pass along your standard go to lines/ stories i.e Opener, hook, DHV, tease, C&F, Close etc
    I've had a girlfriend for the past few weeks, and I was gaming her exclusively for about a month before that. So it's a little hard to remember the last time I picked up a girl.

    As for my game plan, I run what is starting the be called Natural Game. I don't have many routines or lines, I simply know basic principles and concepts that I incorporate into the way I act. It's not for everyone, and requires a unique skill set, and it's not as exact as what some other guys do, but it is always authentic and it's kept PUA from becoming a science for me. Here's a general overview of my game.

    I use a form of indirect-direct. It's a little like Kino's bombshell, but not quite as dramatic. I call it the Westly approach (just came up with that now. If you get the reference, good for you). I used to call it the "20 Seconds of Courage". I start off indirect, flirting, teasing, and playful kino. The attractions fairly obvious, but it's unspoken. It's that "I think he likes me but I'm not sure" thought process that get's a girl's imagination working for you, and keeps her focused on you. Then, when you're ready to escalate, you go direct. I usually say something along the lines of "I'm just going to lay it all on the table. You're an incredibly attractive girl, and I'd kick myself forever if I missed out on the opportunity to do what I'm about to do." Then you look her in the eyes, take her face in your hands, and kiss her. Long and slow. If you've done everything right and she is attracted to you, she'll start kissing you back and it'll turn into making out. Now the whole point of this whole approach is to make it feel natural, like it's straight out of a Taylor Swift song. You want to sweep her off her feet. Then, you ask her out.

    I have to warn you, do not use this casually. In fact I advise against using it to get a ONL or a FWB. This technique is powerful, and it plays to a girls romantic side. If you do it right, she will fall in love with you. And if you aren't willing to fall in love with her, than leave her alone. Trust me. If you just want something sexual, tell her that honestly. You'd be surprised how well some girl's respond to it. If you don't feel up for it, stay indirect and escalate normally.

    Openers: Since I run mostly college and day game, all my openers are situational. Every one has been spur of the moment. It works best that way. I can give you some examples.
    -I was once walking down the sidewalk when I noticed a cute girl 5 feet in front of me. I caught up to her and said "Hey, didn't mean to freak you out but I felt like a creeper walking right behind you. I'm Bandit"
    -Another time I sat next to a girl with a ton of books by asking how she was able to think so early in the morning (it was like 10AM.) She laughed and said it's not that early. I replied that I wouldn't know, I'm a zombie before 930.
    -One girl I offered a cookie to as we were walking. That's it. Just offered her a cookie.
    Everything else you mentioned doesn't come up much. I've always had a knack for flirting with women in general, so teasing comes naturally. Honestly, that's something you just have to learn on your own anyway. I slip DHVs into my conversation as I go, but I never put a lot of thought into it. I've actually found that slight DLVing can be a DHV, but you have to be funny about it. If you're funny, it's charming. If you're not, it's self-defeating.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    I often stall during date conversations... I normally recover it ok but it has ruined one golden shot already.

    I prefer to keep it natural and not rely on routines too heavily but there are times when my mind goes blank and I just flat out panic. I had a 10 minute conversation about gardening... face-palm!

    So just wanted to ask, do you have any good routines or just decent conversation starters/ topics to use as a fall back?
    I use a technique I picked up from some free videos at daygame.com. It doesn't have a solid name, but the premise is that you alternate between asking a question and making a statement. Say you ask a question, she replies, then you make a statement about that subject, then she replies, then you ask her another question. It's a great way to learn how to keep a conversation going and a good back up if thing's go south. It keeps the conversation from feeling like an interview while still keeping the focus on her. Everyone, especially girls, love talking about themselves. So by making statements about their responses keeps the focus on them without them feeling like they're carrying the conversation.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Alright How to get a shy girl to open up to you, make her laugh, and be comfortable around you? went to my friends class and I sat side center table of his class. i brought a thermos and there was this brunette9(really shy) that sat in front of my friend but was facing towards our direction. i pored some random a$$ed tea and me and my friend were chilling drinking tea. she bursted out laughing and i asked her if she wanted to join us, she denied but was still smiling, I said "well im to British for you anyway'' and she laughed again, after that she was to shy and i had to go anyways, wish i got a name... what would be your next step?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I picked up on the cashier at the bank y'day(number close) but I was clean shaven with a light stubble. It's strange though that women do not react positively when I have a scruffy beard on.

    Now, I like having a full beard on since it's boring looking at the same reflection in the mirror everyday. Except that for some reason I notice that women hate me with a full beard on. I know coz I tried sargeing with a full beard on sunday.

    So my question is how much do looks factor in when it comes to the game?....are negative reactions only limited to unkempt scruffy beards or do men who are viewed as being ugly have absolutely no hope left even if they do present themselves well?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Ooo ... ooo! Teacher! Pick me pick me lol!

    Why are u called Bandit???
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bandit,

    You still here and helping the little guys?

    Could use some help/opinion :P

    Isaleem

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by isaleem View Post
    Hey Bandit,

    You still here and helping the little guys?

    Could use some help/opinion :P

    Isaleem
    What do u want? i'll help too (30)
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