I've had a girlfriend for the past few weeks, and I was gaming her exclusively for about a month before that. So it's a little hard to remember the last time I picked up a girl.
Originally Posted by keeksy1984
As for my game plan, I run what is starting the be called Natural Game. I don't have many routines or lines, I simply know basic principles and concepts that I incorporate into the way I act. It's not for everyone, and requires a unique skill set, and it's not as exact as what some other guys do, but it is always authentic and it's kept PUA from becoming a science for me. Here's a general overview of my game.
I use a form of indirect-direct. It's a little like Kino's bombshell, but not quite as dramatic. I call it the Westly approach (just came up with that now. If you get the reference, good for you). I used to call it the "20 Seconds of Courage". I start off indirect, flirting, teasing, and playful kino. The attractions fairly obvious, but it's unspoken. It's that "I think he likes me but I'm not sure" thought process that get's a girl's imagination working for you, and keeps her focused on you. Then, when you're ready to escalate, you go direct. I usually say something along the lines of "I'm just going to lay it all on the table. You're an incredibly attractive girl, and I'd kick myself forever if I missed out on the opportunity to do what I'm about to do." Then you look her in the eyes, take her face in your hands, and kiss her. Long and slow. If you've done everything right and she is attracted to you, she'll start kissing you back and it'll turn into making out. Now the whole point of this whole approach is to make it feel natural, like it's straight out of a Taylor Swift song. You want to sweep her off her feet. Then, you ask her out.
I have to warn you, do not use this casually. In fact I advise against using it to get a ONL or a FWB. This technique is powerful, and it plays to a girls romantic side. If you do it right, she will fall in love with you. And if you aren't willing to fall in love with her, than leave her alone. Trust me. If you just want something sexual, tell her that honestly. You'd be surprised how well some girl's respond to it. If you don't feel up for it, stay indirect and escalate normally.
Openers: Since I run mostly college and day game, all my openers are situational. Every one has been spur of the moment. It works best that way. I can give you some examples.
-I was once walking down the sidewalk when I noticed a cute girl 5 feet in front of me. I caught up to her and said "Hey, didn't mean to freak you out but I felt like a creeper walking right behind you. I'm Bandit"Everything else you mentioned doesn't come up much. I've always had a knack for flirting with women in general, so teasing comes naturally. Honestly, that's something you just have to learn on your own anyway. I slip DHVs into my conversation as I go, but I never put a lot of thought into it. I've actually found that slight DLVing can be a DHV, but you have to be funny about it. If you're funny, it's charming. If you're not, it's self-defeating.
-Another time I sat next to a girl with a ton of books by asking how she was able to think so early in the morning (it was like 10AM.) She laughed and said it's not that early. I replied that I wouldn't know, I'm a zombie before 930.
-One girl I offered a cookie to as we were walking. That's it. Just offered her a cookie.