Hi Bandit, here comes a different kind of question. I'm new to this. I'm a 49 yr old man, divorced almost 2 yrs ago. My ex got caught in an affair and we ended up divorcing. We have 2 girls, 9 & 12. I hate being divorced. Being married 13 years, I have been out of the dating world forever.
Over the past 1.5 yrs, I have enjoyed using a lot of these techniques to PU girls in their mid 20's. As nutty as this sounds, I want to see if I can get my ex-wife back. I didn't use any of these techniques to get her back in the late 90's when we dated nor after we were married.
A little more background: She has been dating a guy for the past 13 months (I think she's in love with him but their relationship is complicated). He's recently moved about 3 hrs out of town & they now rarely see each other. He has 3 kids, she has 2 & I just don't see her wanting to be a Mom to 5 kids, lol. She doesn't even enjoy living for our 2 girls
I get to see her just about as often as I want to. At this point, I've been WAY to nice to her & she knows I want her back. I've given her way too much power.
I think she "looks at me a certain way" when we're alone & she's had some wine but I haven't made a pass at her yet.
OK, my question is how to get her into bed? I think I can get her to want to reconcile if I do. Should I treat her like any other girl or does our history require a different approach?
Thanks wise sage!