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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Xavier,

    Basically its a multiple fold question but basically still a newbie one haha! -

    1) obviously the community is forever changing so Im curious as to what you guys are currently recommending for beginner gaming. Is magic bullets still considered solid beginner? what about 60yoc, as Im currently reading through that? Is Npl more advanced stuff? How did you guys deal with the information overload with learning all of this stuff? What did you wish you had known from the beginning looking back from where you are now?

    2) How would guys go about determining the stage that you were at with regards to a girl that you are gaming, or in my case re-gaming? Ive known the girl for a while and based on the opinions of others on this site, there the possibility that she is interested, even though I originally thought that I was firmly in the f-zone . My problem being that Im not sure whether I should be going all out attraction or some qualifying/comfort in order to progress things further?

    Would definitely appreciate some help haha! An example of a conversation with this bird is on another thread (I dont want to make this any longer pahah!)

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    -First off it's nice to see u're enthuseasime.
    1)-Yes magic bullets is still a good start.
    -I've never read 60yoc
    -I reccomend u read this xavier - What to expect when becoming a pua
    -Our techniques are derived out of NLP. NLP can be considered as beeing more advanced but it is also way harder to master and u'll get the same results out of the techniques u'll learn here or in the books.
    -There is no one thing i can really pick: the power of push and pull, roll offs, freeze outs, qualifying her (which is essential, don't think that just cuz u have attraction means it's over) and the maaaaaaaad ioi's u get while doing a cold read.
    2)-I just know out of experience i guess
    -No i'd say qualify her
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Xavier!
    Cheers for the reply, liked reading your post exactly what I am currently thinking haha! I think I shall have to make a structured work list knowing me!

    Okay so naturally most of the work ive done is in person and I am working majorly improving everything from attraction to qualifying. Although Im tending to work within my social group or open with a cheers! etc etc

    Is it possible to confirm attraction and qualify online however? I've been applying the knowledge ive gained from reading text game to my FB convos and have seen major results. especially from this chick whom before it was usually one word answers even though I have knwn for a while. Again she isn't the "only" girl obviously but definitely one that I am interested in spending more time with.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    X did u release your book yet???
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Bandit this is a great thread, you should keep up on it because it's a great read. Cheers

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    What was the biggest motivating factor to get you off your ass reading forums, or smoking bowls, or whatever your escape from real life and into the field.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    So back in HS I took this girl to prom but we really havent talked since then, then I started texting her again. I want to hang out with her but I have no clue what to do. I am worried about awkward silences and stuff to talk about. Any suggestions?

    Also, I really need help with some inner confidence. I want to beable to walk up to any girl, my AA is really bad so when I see a hot girl I freeze up, have no clue what to say, so I just keep walking. I want to be different for 2013.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by LockDown View Post
    X did u release your book yet???
    Not yet i've already writtn about ten bfd's and i have but bullet points on how to turn u're friend into u're girlfriend.
    the description of the book is gonna be something like this:
    So u want a random girl at a bar and she says she has a boyfriend that is easily taken care of, u want a girl u know but u know she has a bf well that's easier, u're in love with u're friend, she doesn't know it and she has a boyfriend well that is the easiest thing in the world.
    And the title is going to be something like this:


    X marks the spot: Xavier's guide past the boyfriend through the friendzone and into her bedroom.


    Nothing is definiate, very open to suggestions.

    P.S: i would like to thank bandit and autismus for helping with the title
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
    _Xavier.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    hi bandit, how are you?

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    Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post


    X marks the spot: Xavier's guide past the boyfriend through the friendzone and into her bedroom.
    Oh sh1t that came together farken awesome bro!!! xD
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR


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