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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Xavier stop posting on my thread you ginger jew rat hall monitor!!

    Lol. I love South Park.

    So yeah, I made this thing then left it to die. Didn't expect it to keep going. Sh!t, guess I should probably get caught up on all of these...or just answer the one's I want to cause it's my hot body and I do what I want...yeah I like that second one.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Godfather View Post
    Alright How to get a shy girl to open up to you, make her laugh, and be comfortable around you? went to my friends class and I sat side center table of his class. i brought a thermos and there was this brunette9(really shy) that sat in front of my friend but was facing towards our direction. i pored some random a$$ed tea and me and my friend were chilling drinking tea. she bursted out laughing and i asked her if she wanted to join us, she denied but was still smiling, I said "well im to British for you anyway'' and she laughed again, after that she was to shy and i had to go anyways, wish i got a name... what would be your next step?
    If she really is as shy as you say, she's probably already attracted to you. If she's laughing at your jokes, it's safe to say she's into you, most of the time. So the issues going to be comfort. She's not going to want to open up, so you have to open up to her first. Normally I say never talk about yourself too much, but in this case you should. Pour on some personal stories and what not and let her just nod along, slip in something how you feel really comfortable around her, and it should work.

    I picked up on the cashier at the bank y'day(number close) but I was clean shaven with a light stubble. It's strange though that women do not react positively when I have a scruffy beard on.
    Long Live The Stubble!!

    I rock the stubble/5 O'clock shadow every day. I've even got a razor specifically designed to leave stubble. I love it. My stubble's been getting me into 21 and up venues since I was 17.

    So my question is how much do looks factor in when it comes to the game?....are negative reactions only limited to unkempt scruffy beards or do men who are viewed as being ugly have absolutely no hope left even if they do present themselves well?
    No hope what so ever.


    Nah, you're fine. I doubt you're even that ugly. You're just stupid (see the warning on the first post for reference)

    Their issue isn't about looks, it's about hygiene. Chick's will forgive you if you're not hot as long as you're doing everything you can to not look like Oscar from Sesame Street. That means taking care of yourself. And beards, 'specially your scraggly mess, come off as gross. "Can he not afford a razor or does he just not care?" "How long since he's washed that thing? I bet it smells like old pizza and sour cream" and of course "Has he been deserted on an island for months? Did he turn to a volleyball for companionship? Could there be a second face under his beard?" are all lines of thought that will no doubt come into said babe's head. Nobody wants to make out with a hairball.

    If you still want to show off your manly mantastic man-itude, I suggest short, obviously trimmed beards. Or of course, the classic stubble. God I love stubble.

    Ooo ... ooo! Teacher! Pick me pick me lol!

    Why are u called Bandit???
    Cause I stole their hearts and take their breath away...

    Nah, that ain't it. I've always liked breaking the rules and before I joined PUA I taught myself what people know call freerunning and was kind of a small-time thief (just for shits and giggles of course). I've always admired the noble thief characters in books and whatnot and when I had to come up with a name Bandit popped into my head. So I took it.

    What was the biggest motivating factor to get you off your ass reading forums, or smoking bowls, or whatever your escape from real life and into the field.
    Remember sex? Yeah, that was awesome! I could go for some of that right about now.

    I practice day game. And not just day game, but college game. I live in the field. The motivation for getting out there is the same thing that gets me to class in the morning. I figure "I'm already here, why not talk to that cute redhead by the fountain"
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    How do you keep a conversation interesting? I usually get off to a great start, initiating a high energy convo but, somewhere along the line it starts to dissipate. How do I maintain the same energy throughout the entire interaction?
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Good conversations should excite you and make you want more. Now obviously not all conversations are like that. You have to come up with your own personal motivation to stay high energy. If you're having a great time so will the person you're talking to.

    I wrote about a technique I use earlier in this thread. Go back a few pages and find it.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Any body else got anything for me?
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Chicks with boyfriends. Do you ever go there or is it better to just stay out of it?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    You've hit on one of the dividing lines in PU. BF Destroying. Personally, I haven't used it and don't plan on it. That may change in the future. I don't think less of people who use it, hell one of my best friends here on the site invented the technique.

    I have a gf right now who's currently in another state for a semester. She's gotten asked out a dozen times by guys and she's said no to all of them. That's cause she thinks I'm the shit and because I treat her right. It doesn't matter how smooth a guy is, she's not going anywhere, cause she has no reason to give up on a good thing for some random guy. That's the heart of BF Destroying. You can't break up a good relationship, you can only make a girl realize what a shitty relationship she's in.

    That said, don't go breaking up couples just for the hell of it. If you do you're just a dick and I publicly disown you in front of God and the internet (you can decide which of those two are scarier). Obviously every man has to come up with their own rules, but here are some guidelines for you

    1. Don't break up a girl unless she's LTR material.
    2. Don't break up a girl if she's emotionally unstable. She will latch onto you and never let go. Yeesh
    3. Don't break up a girl unless you can survive a fight with her boyfriend. Whether that's winning or just not soiling yourself, your call.
    4. Don't break up your best friend and his girlfriend no matter how many times she's let you see her underwear.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I'm going to leave this page open for anyone who wants to ask me stuff. It probably wouldn't hurt to message me, but post your question here so everyone can see my ingenious answer.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Alright I'll shoot. Im a freshmen in college. I have no problem hitting on girls that I don't know. But Im struggling how escalate with say a girl who I talk to in class regularly but never hit on. I love being direct but only if at the start. It feels weird to just start out of nowhere.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    hi Bandit

    how is the user "activity" calculated on this site? apparently i'm here 100% even when i sleep haha i just felt like asking this cause it's been on my mind since i joined


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