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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Devil_dog View Post
    Alright I'll shoot. Im a freshmen in college. I have no problem hitting on girls that I don't know. But Im struggling how escalate with say a girl who I talk to in class regularly but never hit on. I love being direct but only if at the start. It feels weird to just start out of nowhere.
    Then don't go direct. Stay indirect, give her frequent attention but not too much. Have a day or two when you just don't talk to her, it'll drive her nuts. You know how to flirt right? If not, I can cover it for you. Otherwise, you escalate the way you normally would. If you need more help, message me.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    hi Bandit

    how is the user "activity" calculated on this site? apparently i'm here 100% even when i sleep haha i just felt like asking this cause it's been on my mind since i joined

    Hell if I know. I barely pay attention to that stuff. Probably magical internet gnomes. That's just an educated guest involving mythological creature...so it's probably right.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    What would be the best way to write to a girl I'm keen for for a date eg next weekend?? She's a confident girl??? How should I approach this

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by scott-tay1 View Post
    What would be the best way to write to a girl I'm keen for for a date eg next weekend??
    Why are you writing her? And what exactly are you asking? How to ask a girl out?

    Quote Originally Posted by scott-tay1 View Post
    She's a confident girl???
    Are you asking me or telling me? And why the hell are you using so many question marks?

    Quote Originally Posted by scott-tay1 View Post
    How should I approach this
    There's a whole big section about how to ask a girl out. Just be confident and put it more as a statement.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Il shoot you another few questions Bandit!

    If a girl that that you have previously known brings up a chump move you pulled a while ago - in this case telling her that I liked her what would you do?

    In this case she brought it up in a text about midway through a conversation saying that "l will go out with you, remember you asked me in the car" then a few seconds later:
    "Ignore me
    I'm in a strange mood"

    what your opinion on this bro? I just kind of redirected it and started back on the previous conversation topic.

    I would like to say that I used some advice that T-mal gave in a few of his posts - in order to get her thinking in a more sexual way (she is one of them sheltered good gals) and I simply got the response "ew." - the conversation wasnt affected as we just continued chatting, but have you any tips on framing a virtual conversation sexually?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    How exactly is asking her out a chump move? It's part of the pickup process. You'll need to give me some more info there.

    My favorite technique is to use role playing. It's really easy to do over text and it has the added affect of making the girls feel like you've spent more time together than just texting. My personal line (don't steal it, pun intended (but for real)) is whenever she asks "what are you doing?" I say "shhh, they'll hear you." She undoubtedly asks "lol who'll hear you?" I tell her "The security guards. I'm robbing a bank." I've never had a girl not play along. It usually ends with her distracting the guards (planting that "this is going to get sexy" seed is important) and we run off to a private island to spend the money. It works better if you come up with your own.
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    I have been working with this absolutely gorgeous girl but she was only covering for 2 days cause someone was away. In these two days of working together i built attraction, spoke about personal life, played fun and stupid games to make her laugh used touch barrier, All good signs so far, I noticed how many guys actually hit on her as we work at reception at a gym, I said do you normally have this much attention ? She said as of recently yes for some reason, so from then I was trying to play a bit of a different game trying to be different from all the other random guys that hit on her, which seemed to work, during the middle of day 2 she asked me for some good excercises to do for abs for the gym, she said we should train together some time and show me what to do, I was like sure I'd love to. Then she got her phone out and said I don't think I have your number what is it?? I gave it to her then she pranked me and asked each other what we wanted to be called, so ended well when she was leaving I mentioned I was going out on Friday night and that she should come and she said she couldn't as she was busy but maybe another time, Iv texted her twice since then and the replyies I got were quite small but last text was kind of cute, I mentioned a pic I posted on Instagram and said she should read it I think you will like this, she replied, I loved you Instagram pic it made me smile have a good night hunni. :-)
    All the messages she writes back to me she normally ends in like in the first text so not sure ?? Any idea so I just straight up ask for a date as she is busy?? Anything would help heaps????

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Texting is not my particular forte. I'm not bad at it, but if you want a true master I'd suggest shooting a message to T-Mal. but I'll toss in my two cents.

    My gut says she's into you. You've separated yourself from all the other guys, and she seems to be pursuing you most of the time. Try and feel out her schedule, maybe see about working out together, or invite her for drinks or something. On a personal note, take her rockclimbing. Lots of indoor climbing gyms are popping up all over the place, and if you have experience, like I do, you can give her advide on where/how to climb, which is a very hands on experience. It's a fun date for active chicks
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I have been working with this absolutely gorgeous girl but she was only covering for 2 days cause someone was away. In these two days of working together i built attraction, spoke about personal life, played fun and stupid games to make her laugh used touch barrier, All good signs so far, I noticed how many guys actually hit on her as we work at reception at a gym, I said do you normally have this much attention ? She said as of recently yes for some reason, so from then I was trying to play a bit of a different game trying to be different from all the other random guys that hit on her, which seemed to work, during the middle of day 2 she asked me for some good excercises to do for abs for the gym, she said we should train together some time and show me what to do, I was like sure I'd love to. Then she got her phone out and said I don't think I have your number what is it?? I gave it to her then she pranked me and asked each other what we wanted to be called, so ended well when she was leaving I mentioned I was going out on Friday night and that she should come and she said she couldn't as she was busy but maybe another time, Iv texted her twice since then and the replyies I got were quite small but last text was kind of cute, I mentioned a pic I posted on Instagram and said she should read it I think you will like this, she replied, I loved you Instagram pic it made me smile have a good night hunni. :-)
    All the messages she writes back to me she normally ends in like in the first text so not sure ?? Any idea so I just straight up ask for a date as she is busy?? Anything would help heaps????

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hey Bandit,

    With regards to the chump move - Basically I was an idiot and pretty much let her guess that I wanted to ask her out, obviously I hadnt really delved into any of the PUA stuff at the time but still... memory recalls that it occurred in her car after she gave me a lift home - I began with something like "hey ###, listen I had a better time than i thought and..." with her interrupting with "you like me don't you (whilst she swatted my leg)" at this point I simply just froze up and basically just said yeah, do you?...she basically turned me down saying Im not looking for a boyfriend at the moment etc (she never has had one - to this day etc).

    so basically I fucked up -began to freeze her out, she texted saying blah blah sorry about "yesterday" and I think i said something like its cool, no need to apologize.

    Anyway a couple of months went by, and I re-established contact in september etc(at this point I had read a little about the PU arts and made quite a bit of progress, until the point where she brings up me asking her out etc...again I didnt really know what to do so just redirected it....

    Problem is that I would like to know if there was any weight behind it, as had she said that to me in person I would just ramped up the kino and probably gone in for the kiss etc (Heck I would shitting myself while i did so haha)

    Sorry if this doesnt make any sense mate - I will try and clarify anything

    Cheers!


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