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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Bandit,

    How did you muster up the confidence and courage to talk to girls when you first became a PUA?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Well when I first started I was actually a counselor at a Christian camp for the whole summer. I had a few chances occasionally, but they were few and far between. It was driving me crazy that I had all this great information that could make me such a badass AND I COULDN'T USE IT! So it got to the point that when I finally did get my chances I was too excited to even worry about AA. I just wanted to do something. And that's basically what happened. It took a while to get in the swing of things, but I was back in college surrounded by beautiful women, so I was able to keep that excitement up.

    There's a thin line between anticipation and anxiety. You've got to learn how to turn that fear into excitement. Yeah, things could go wrong and you could crash and burn. But they could also go perfectly. Just focus on how great your life could be, and how bad it used to be, and that should be all the motivation you need.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default I'm not sure if she is in to me or not

    I've heard you are a college kid so this is up your alley. I am 21 and this cute girl is 20. I came to U of I(university of Illinois) with my best friend, her( cute girl Stephanie and another girl. Both girls are very close with my best friend's cousin(who is who we all came to see for unofficial and also staying with.) I really want to move forward with this one girl but I have no idea how too. Mainly because I think she is still into her ex(which she texted a couple times then got fed up with) any tips to move forward in this situation?!
    Please any help in needed!!
    Thanks, Tom.

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    Default Re: I'm not sure if she is in to me or not

    Quote Originally Posted by idontknowwhatimdoing View Post
    I've heard you are a college kid so this is up your alley. I am 21 and this cute girl is 20. I came to U of I(university of Illinois) with my best friend, her( cute girl Stephanie and another girl. Both girls are very close with my best friend's cousin(who is who we all came to see for unofficial and also staying with.) I really want to move forward with this one girl but I have no idea how too. Mainly because I think she is still into her ex(which she texted a couple times then got fed up with) any tips to move forward in this situation?!
    Please any help in needed!!
    Thanks, Tom.
    You're kind of confusing me, man. I don't know exactly what you're asking or which girl you're referring to. But it sounds like you're a little too hooked on this one girl. Reminds me of this friend I had. He was hooked on this girl, my best friend through high school. He didn't get anywhere. Finally he moved on, really moved on, and started looking at other girls. Now they're dating.

    What you need to do is move on, game a few girls, show some preselection, then try with this girl of yours.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hello!

    I was seeing a girl for just under 2 months, we had a thing with no title. I knew that she had been heartbroken about 4 months ago before we started our thing. I thought she would have been over him by then, but it was her first love. She was my type, cute, smart and easy to talk with. So things were going good for about a month and a half. She is a virgin, so the furthest I could get with her was taking her top off/bra off and touching her *** over her clothes. I escalated and dealt with LMR the best I could. I was also comforting as she is a virgin.

    About 2 weeks ago she told me that her ex wanted to get back together with her as he probably heard about me fooling around with her.. She told me that she was really confused about what she wanted, she said that she liked me and at the time I was oblivious at the fact she probably still loved her ex. So from there, we both agreed that she needed some time to get over her feelings. Later that night, I was getting help with social media, randomly.. There were girls saying they couldn't wait to see me and buddies were saying stuff like 'Can't wait to go this "event!" So later that night, she texted me saying "I HAVEN'T MADE THE RIGHT DECISION HAVE I?" I responded with "No, you are just confused, give it some time." I then no longer texted her for a day or two until she re opens a convo.

    After this, we go on a roller coaster of emotions, both of us, she said that she liked me but just doesn't want commitment etc etc. I posted a DHV status on twitter that said "Girls only meet the parents because they need to walk past the living room." She then replied in another tweet, "You're a douche." I told her it wasn't directed at her nor was it made to make her feel "bad, or crumby in her words," this was on a car ride we took together. So I then asked her to be my girlfriend, I went totally AFC as I was super confused with my emotions and I liked her. I told her to give it some time. Oh and I am pretty sure her best friend hates me because of that tweet.

    She texted me later that night (this was about a week ago) asking if I was mad, I told her I wasn't. She then went onto disqualifying herself saying I should find someone who doesn't have so many issues and getting into a relationship shouldn't be this hard, etc etc. So I was pretty upset at the time, I responded with "K" and deleted her number etc etc.

    I have read other threads on here similar to mine, they all say be distant, cold, but be friendly! So my question is, should I tell her on facebook that I respect her and want to be friends with her and then be really distant (but so we are on 100% good terms) or continue NC? I know for a fact she is going to get hurt by her ex, I see her status updates on social media all the time..

    Oh and for the record, I have been gaming other chicks, girls have been posting stuff on my social media and they have uploaded a few party pics with me in them.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Woah, sorry homie. I didn't realize you'd asked me something.

    The good news is you asked this 2 weeks ago, which is years in internet time. So you probably don't care if I answer this or not. So I won't. Everyone wins!
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Alright, new question. Who's got something for me?
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Bandit, I know your in college but what do you think about the PUA lifestyle and getting married in the future? I want to get insanely good right now but will having slept with hundreds of women make it impossible to truly settle with just one. My standards will have been set so high and my mindset of abundance will have me never wanting to stop. Thoughts?

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Hi Bandit I got one too. This chick in my class smiles at me etc. finally I talked to her on the way out today. My damn ego keeps telling me I messed up somehow, wasn't fun enough, didn't say the right things. But fark all that the important thing is that I talked to her, right? Methinks my mind is playing tricks on me. She was just as nervous, and probably left thinking the same sh1t, right? This is specific case but it applies generally. Guess I just need some reassurance from an Xpert. Thx bro.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by Devil_dog View Post
    Bandit, I know your in college but what do you think about the PUA lifestyle and getting married in the future? I want to get insanely good right now but will having slept with hundreds of women make it impossible to truly settle with just one. My standards will have been set so high and my mindset of abundance will have me never wanting to stop. Thoughts?
    I'm in an LTR with a girl right now. I'll be honest, she's not the most attractive girl on campus (even though to me she's gorgeous). And when I was deciding whether I wanted to commit to her I faced the same decision everyone who joins this community has to face at one point or another. Whether being with this girl was worth all the other girls out there. To me, the answer was yes. And it was still yes when she transferred to a different school. I had always been the first one to decry Long Distance stuff, and yet I ended up in one. And I'm perfectly happy with that. Cause I really do love this girl.

    Love. It's an idea that isn't talked about enough on this site. It's all about getting girls and having sex, but that's never what any of the guys here really want. They want love. Whether it's from their friends, from their girlfriends, or from complete strangers, that's what people are really looking for here. Love can mean a lot of things. Attention, devotion, respect, etc. We say oneitis instead of love, and we treat it like a disease. But really, we shouldn't. In my mind, the goal of PUA should be to meet women, make them feel good, have a good time, and eventually to fall in love with a gorgeous girl, get her to fall in love with you, and live happily ever after. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Nobody should be doing this forever.

    And to answer your question, you don't have to worry too much about the girl of your dreams freaking out about your past. After all, it's a big reason why she's going to fall in love with you. My girlfriend constantly tells me how lucky she is because I could have had any girl on campus and I chose her. She loves that I'm confident, charming, witty, and a bit of an ass, and she knows that other girls like that too. Would you turn down a beautiful, sexy, confident, devoted girl just because she's had plenty of attention from men in the past? I hope not. She knows I have a history with women and she doesn't mind, because she trusts me not to fool around while we're together. And I don't. It's really that simple.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”


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