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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by SonnyCurtis View Post
    Hi Bandit I got one too. This chick in my class smiles at me etc. finally I talked to her on the way out today. My damn ego keeps telling me I messed up somehow, wasn't fun enough, didn't say the right things. But fark all that the important thing is that I talked to her, right? Methinks my mind is playing tricks on me. She was just as nervous, and probably left thinking the same sh1t, right? This is specific case but it applies generally. Guess I just need some reassurance from an Xpert. Thx bro.
    You miss every shot you don't take, right? I think that's how the saying goes. If she was smiling, playing along with you, laughing at your jokes, even just keeping the conversation going, any of these, you did the right thing. Keep it up.
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    Question Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    hey bandit,

    i found dis girl online and we chat last nite n i asked her out n she said not yet. today she buzzed me n started chatting again. somewhere along d chat i forgot to ask her out till i had to leave. so she said "tc" n i didn't get it till she said "i know u wanna meet me rite". i got lost a second there coz i didn't think i was gonna meet her today n got lost in d chat to ask her out..

    oh.. i found out she lives like a mile down my condo.. basically, i'm trying to figure out wat i did n wat i was supposed to do n not do from now..

    any comments wud be great.. thx bandit!

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    hey bandit, thanks for making this thread.

    i met this girl awhile back at the store, she was the cashier. we flirted a few times and after the 3rd time meeting i asked her number. she gave it to me with a huge smile on her face. i texted her the next day only to recieve a "i think your looking for someone who has more free time, lets be friends" text.

    i got offended by this because she assumed i put her on a pedastal. so i responded " im not looking for a relationship either, and i dont understand why you think i want to fark you, you must think your hot sh1t, i just thought you were fun to be around"

    she responds "im sorry, im on my period, please ignore me. im emotional"

    then proceeds to flirt with me and send me nude pics out of the blue over the next week.

    but every attempt i make to get this girl to meet me, theres always some excuse as to why it cant happen. "i work all weekend" or "im visiting family today" or whatever.

    so i decided to do a freezout on her for a week. well, she texted me the first day and second day, asking if i was ignoring her. i didnt respond until 7 days later, saying ive been working my ass off and havent had a chance to talk. things slowly died down after that to where i cut her off, saying i need to spend some time on myself.

    my question is, how can things go from such heavy flirting with nude pics to complete sh1t as soon as i show any interest in this girl?
    why was she more attracted to me after we fought and i didnt want anything to do with her?

    i feel like theres a crucial step im skipping, or something because its not adding up to me.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by duan2012 View Post
    hey bandit,

    i found dis girl online and we chat last nite n i asked her out n she said not yet. today she buzzed me n started chatting again. somewhere along d chat i forgot to ask her out till i had to leave. so she said "tc" n i didn't get it till she said "i know u wanna meet me rite". i got lost a second there coz i didn't think i was gonna meet her today n got lost in d chat to ask her out..

    oh.. i found out she lives like a mile down my condo.. basically, i'm trying to figure out wat i did n wat i was supposed to do n not do from now..

    any comments wud be great.. thx bandit!
    I'm not going to answer you until you figure out what spellcheck is.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Quote Originally Posted by tsiring View Post
    hey bandit, thanks for making this thread.

    i met this girl awhile back at the store, she was the cashier. we flirted a few times and after the 3rd time meeting i asked her number. she gave it to me with a huge smile on her face. i texted her the next day only to recieve a "i think your looking for someone who has more free time, lets be friends" text.

    i got offended by this because she assumed i put her on a pedastal. so i responded " im not looking for a relationship either, and i dont understand why you think i want to fark you, you must think your hot sh1t, i just thought you were fun to be around"

    she responds "im sorry, im on my period, please ignore me. im emotional"

    then proceeds to flirt with me and send me nude pics out of the blue over the next week.

    but every attempt i make to get this girl to meet me, theres always some excuse as to why it cant happen. "i work all weekend" or "im visiting family today" or whatever.

    so i decided to do a freezout on her for a week. well, she texted me the first day and second day, asking if i was ignoring her. i didnt respond until 7 days later, saying ive been working my ass off and havent had a chance to talk. things slowly died down after that to where i cut her off, saying i need to spend some time on myself.

    my question is, how can things go from such heavy flirting with nude pics to complete sh1t as soon as i show any interest in this girl?
    why was she more attracted to me after we fought and i didnt want anything to do with her?

    i feel like theres a crucial step im skipping, or something because its not adding up to me.
    One of the key tactics in Pick Up, and more specifically flirting, is Push-Pull. You're using it without realizing it, and you're using it wrong. You're letting the situation dictate your actions, where your actions should be dictating the situation. Got me?

    You need to be dangling the string in front of her, getting her to chase you. Always keep it playful. Over time, the timing will become instinctual. I'll explain it to you tomorrow.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    "You're letting the situation dictate your actions, where your actions should be dictating the situation. Got me?"

    makes complete sense to me, i knew i was doing something bassakwards.

    thanks for the advice man, im gonna work on push/pull. im just way to nice to people and they dont think they;ve earned it, so they see me as weak i think.

    do you mind if i send you a pm bandit? i have a few more questions that i dont want to air here

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Yeah, sure.

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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    I'm in class and I'm bored out of my neon cowboy hat. Someone ask me something.
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    Are there differences between boxers and boxer briefs other than that boxer briefs wont bunch up under clothes?
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    Default Re: I'm Bandit, ask me anything!

    After a good first couple of dates, and a third having been agreed which was to be at her's, she has suddenly gone quiet, not messaging me at all since the second date. What do I do next? I have messaged her twice. The first message that I sent her asked how she was, we'd been out for drinks. The second message was sent hours later and was a simple comment.

    As far as I knew, things were progressing well and she admitted to liking me on the second date.... so, why has she suddenly adopted the silent treatment?


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