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    Default Should I add her on Facebook?

    Okay, so I know this girl from class. We have one mutual friend in common. I met her once before, and then saw her again yesterday after our exam. I said hi, talked, she showed a lot of IOI. I flirted a bit, maintained the frame, negged, etc. However, I was really tired from an all nighter and well I failed to # close...I know Along the convo she mentioned something about our mutual friend's facebook (another opening...major AFC day)

    So, I just looked her up and saw her there. She looks a lot better lol. So would adding her be too creepy? And if I do add her, what and how should I open? Chances are I will run into her again. I want to keep my frame and not seem needy.

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    Just tell her "Hey! are you the same girl I know? I see we have friends in common and Facebook keeps telling me about it , so I thought I'll add you " .

    try that

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    Thanks for the reply.
    We only have 1 friend in common, so it is unlikely. Otherwise I totally would do. I just think it would show too much interest that I went and searched through my friend's friendlist to find her..Needy lol.

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    If she can recognize you and you can recognize her on Facebook by the profile photos then add her..if you just saw her just wait couple days if you feel you are being needy then modify that line to your liking and then carry it out.

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    Considering asking the mutual friend for her 'facebook'. That way I can say she gave it to me. Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    BUMP...30 characters for the win!!

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    how did you fail to number close? Like just fail or not try at all?

    If you didn't try at all - go and number close! don't waste your time with Facebook and stuff, you'll just be trying to get her number eventually anyway.

    How well do you know the mutal friend? There are many ways this could go. If the friend is a girl and she views you highly, hint that she has a cute friend and we should all hang out soon something fun not too obviously like you're just using her.

    Most importantly if you do wanna add her, wait a couple days or even a week so you don't seem creepy. Say something fun like, "hey I decided to add you, you're not like one of those crazy stalker girls who like every picture right?" or "ahhhh, i think i'll keep you as a friend, you don't seem too weird "

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    Thanks Purple. Yes normally I would try to N-Close her again it is just the fact that I've seen her twice in the last semester lol. And next semester we won't have any classes together, so my chances to 'run into her' are kind of slim. I did follow your advice and asked our HB friend to hang out. We'll see where that goes.

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    Check if she has commented on the mutual friend's photo, If so you can say "Hey.. Saw you comment on X's photo Thought I'd add you"

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    Default Re: Should I add her on Facebook?

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    Considering asking the mutual friend for her 'facebook'. That way I can say she gave it to me. Thoughts?
    Nah, don't ask your friend, that would make it "a whole thing" IMO. Remember on of Mystery's rules: "No matter what happens, it's no big deal."

    I've been playing around recently with basically Neg-IOI's... and IO... an Neg-of-Interest... and NOI! Just thought of the name, makes me , but I digress...

    Just send her a friend request. Period, the end. No message, no comments. Sending a message will come off as an attempt at rapport-building = waaay too much interest to her.

    Requsting her is an IOI (it says - you seemed cool, I'd like to keep you in the outer regions of my social circle)
    Not sending a message is a Neg (it says - you were cool enough to "friend" but not cool enough to spend any time talking to)

    Then, later, much later, like when school starts again - if you come across something that picks up the little conversation you had:
    "Oh, sh1t I forgot how bad the cafeteria food here was"
    "Fuuuu***q I would almost rather have another finals week to not sit through "sylabus day"!"
    "Why the he11 are you dressed as pikachu in your profile pic"

    (Whatever you guys were talking about - or something on the very front of her profile)
    HB: "You stalking me? xD"
    PUA: "It's on your front page. Don't get cocky."

    When you message or comment send very brief messages with no emoticons - as if you are writing a message to someone you really don't want to hang out with and you don't have time to talk. This is the spirit of the NOI - communicate as if you don't have time for this.

    Good luck!

    P.s. @Fuser: Looks like I got the activity award back for a bit xD
    Last edited by Autismus; 12-17-2012 at 02:17 AM. Reason: Joshin
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