Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 5 of 5
  1. #1
    keeksy1984 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 308, Level: 6
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 6.5%
    Achievements:
    250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Fife
    Posts
    34
    Points
    308
    Level
    6
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    19

    Default LJBF - advice on reply when you say not interested in friends

    Ok so quick backstory, met a HB and for few months hung out, closed everytime yada yada. she suddenly went cold (this is how i found PUA so not all bad) and finished it, made typical AFC mistakes

    NC for 2-3 months and she reiniated contact and she was initially very warm until flaking on a meet up, she is now cold and distant again.

    Choices
    1: NC again
    2: Tease on attitude
    3: Confront and establish behaviour unacceptable
    4: Send LJBF not working text (shes a texter not one for talking on phone)

    Ill say i have no interest in pursing FWB or LTR with this HB, i'm happy with cutrent HBs i'm gaming however there must be a point where you draw a line in the sand and state this behaviour is unacceptable?

    This why i'm leaning towards "LJBF not working"

    Any advice appreciated and examples of what you would do

  2. #2
    Fuser is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,653, Level: 33
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 97
    Overall activity: 23.1%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    387
    Points
    2,653
    Level
    33
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    132

    Default Re: LJBF - advice on reply when you say not interested in friends

    Is there a lot of flirting in your text convos? If there isn't then then LJBF texts will just be a little odd. If she is flirting with you, then I say yes go for it.

  3. #3
    keeksy1984 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 308, Level: 6
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 6.5%
    Achievements:
    250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Fife
    Posts
    34
    Points
    308
    Level
    6
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    19

    Default Re: LJBF - advice on reply when you say not interested in friends

    There is alot of flirting when shes warm but for last week 2 weeks she has been cold and distant, not responding to flirting, teases, fluff talk etc

    She initially stated LJBF months ago but comes back for more then goes cold again, so i was asking how best to send "LJBF not working... ie i have enough friends"

    What i'm trying to say makes sense in my mind but struggling to articulate it well

  4. #4
    Fuser is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,653, Level: 33
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 97
    Overall activity: 23.1%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    387
    Points
    2,653
    Level
    33
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    132

    Default Re: LJBF - advice on reply when you say not interested in friends

    So right now she is just cold....?
    I think you should just let it go man. If she is just ignoring you or being distant and you pull LJBF or I have enough friends will just come off as an angry beta who wasn't able to score. If you don't care about her next time she messages you just flirt a little and then pull it. Reverse the roles.

  5. #5
    keeksy1984 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 308, Level: 6
    Level completed: 16%, Points required for next Level: 42
    Overall activity: 6.5%
    Achievements:
    250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Location
    Fife
    Posts
    34
    Points
    308
    Level
    6
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    19

    Default Re: LJBF - advice on reply when you say not interested in friends

    Ok, cheers for the advice

    Thanks mate


Similar Threads

  1. I think I can scape LJBF solid advice needed guys
    By steve_f in forum General Questions
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 10-19-2012, 10:55 AM
  2. Need Advice: HB just broke up with bf, now interested in me...
    By Crispy in forum Help Getting A Girlfriend
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 10-09-2012, 10:47 AM
  3. Say no to LJBF (Let's Just Be Friends)! Friendship is for p*ssies: The HmS Method
    By Alanswer in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 12
    Last Thread: 08-15-2012, 05:29 PM
  4. Need a quick reply to her txt, to keep her interested
    By PSAM_RST in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 11
    Last Thread: 08-01-2012, 10:19 AM
  5. Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 05-12-2011, 02:48 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com