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    jrosado812 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Can someone explain this to me!

    Im still a newbie but long story short I opened this Hb8. N-closed her.
    We texted couple times then no response from tried again 3 days later
    She wrote back talk for a little then no response again so texted her today this last attempt

    Me: who is this? (I know who it was by I just wanted to open)

    Hb8: who are you?

    Me: haha. I'm jk I know who this is but who am I ?

    Hb8: you tell me first

    Me: your that very creative girl with sense of fashion
    that move form the big apple to the sunshine state. Am I right or right? Lol

    Hb8: lol your correct.

    Me:love your style btw. But who am I?

    Hb8: your that guy from aldos that loves my style.lol

    Me: Haha, you missed a couple things and I know so did I. so I'd say we get together for lunch and chat a little. My treat!

    Hb8:yeah umm sure but just to let you know I have a boyfriend .

    Me:what are some of your favorite foods? ( I ignored the boyfriend thing)

    Hb8: ? I like everything

    Me:great! I know of this place where they serve the best burgers in town. It awsome
    Youll love it.

    Hb8: ummm Alright

    I havent responded yet.

    But why would she tell me she has a boyfriend now and not when I number closed her . And how do i go about it also any critiqs ill take them.

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    Fuser is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Can someone explain this to me!

    You have chased her quite a bit. Good job on maintaining the frame. It will be interesting to see if she flakes or not! The boyfriend could just be a defense...he might or might not exist. Go for it.

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    jrosado812 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Can someone explain this to me!

    Thanks bro thats what i thought but
    Update:

    Me : okay, whats your schedule look like this week?

    Hb8: well all be with my boyfriend this week since I'm going back home.

    Me :Your telling me your going to be with him 24/7 lol I know you got a 30-60 min to enjoy the best burger you'll ever have before you head back to the city haha

    Hb8: lol well no not 24/7 but I mean I'm leaving next week so yeah

    What should I do next? Lol

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    Default Re: Can someone explain this to me!

    You showed too much interest, and chased her too much I think. You DLV and she is not interested. I would say move on! There has been no flirting or anything.

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    Default Re: Can someone explain this to me!

    This was pretty brutal. But beings that you are new it's a good start so just keep practicing.

    You were chasing too much. Revealed that your original text to her was a ploy to get her attention. Sent her an invite even though she didn't earn it and even offered to pay trying to CONVINCE her to come out with you. That's what all other guys do is try to CONVINCE her to basically sleep with them.

    She may be using the bf thing because of buyers remorse. But I could be wrong. Again just keep practicing and you'll start to see these things.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    jrosado812 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Can someone explain this to me!

    Yeah that deff came off as needy / beta.
    But how do iknow when she earns it and how do I avoid buyers remorse.
    Also dont try to convince her by invesment?

    Btw thank you guys so much for the help is gladly appreciated

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    Charlie Neptune is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Can someone explain this to me!

    Often lack of response after a n-close is because you didn't build enough comfort and/or attraction. Early flaws will compound later. Let her go. Keep at it. It's a bit of a numbers game too. Get lots of numbers and maintain that you are the prize. She should take you out for a burger because you are so damn awesome

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    Default Re: Can someone explain this to me!

    That's where qualification comes into play. Once she is attracted it's easier to qualify her. Which basically means to get her to prove herself to you. Directly or indirectly.

    Find out what kind of woman she is and let her know if she's close or not to what you are looking for.

    "I love a woman who is good at massages."

    "So how often do you go out and get blacked out drunk?"

    "You're too high maintenance for me."
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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