Re: Can someone explain this to me!
This was pretty brutal. But beings that you are new it's a good start so just keep practicing.
You were chasing too much. Revealed that your original text to her was a ploy to get her attention. Sent her an invite even though she didn't earn it and even offered to pay trying to CONVINCE her to come out with you. That's what all other guys do is try to CONVINCE her to basically sleep with them.
She may be using the bf thing because of buyers remorse. But I could be wrong. Again just keep practicing and you'll start to see these things.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."