Re: How to establish High Status?
I know what you mean by routines. And I don't mean canned. I mean material that's mine and only mine. Just have to try and make it fresh each time yourself. Take pride in the fact that you have your own personal material that's reliable.
As for high status...being the most interesting guy doesn't mean that you have to be a hockey player, celebrity, etc. They get attention for 5 min. Once the star struck calms down then their personality comes through and they could be just boring.
I never let it intimidate me. I befriend them and talk them up a little. Sometimes just smile and listen to the endless stories and knowledge they spew out to try and impress everyone. It's about poking at their emotions, not their brains....if that makes sense.
One time I was with a woman I was dating and she had this guy friend who was in the peace core. Spoke 4 different languages and survived malaria. This guy was INTERESTING. But he wouldn't shut up. So I just let him keep talking until we were all tired then I went to bed with her that night.
Remember it's how you make them feel, not think. Women tend to feel first and then try to rationalize later. Why else would a woman keep going back to guys that abuse her?
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."